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Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?


theunforgiven

Anonymous
Quote by: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

Yes. As a woman I used Adult Friend Finder for a year and a half. As with any site you have to have a good attitude and be willing to put time and effort in contacting people and yes there are many fake profiles. Anything that looks too good to be true probably is. Please keep in mind that the men out-number the females by a factor of 10. I am going to repeat the "good attitude" and "time and effort." All the men that I met and hooked up with 1) didn't assume that I was a fake profile and sent a nice first message-- not a flirt or one line and 2) had a complete profile themselves, with well-written paragraphs, pictures (body, face as well as equipment) and testimonials which AFF has and 3) were prompt about meeting, calling or video chatting with no run around.



In short: BS Smile
- I have been there, and there are almost no real girls, but a lost fake profiles and all sorts of "scamers", e-mail collectors, etc...
- Secondly, even those very very few... basically, very unclear why are they there. They complain so many guys, yet they do not look or contact anyone themselves
- Thirdly, if so many guys, surely they would find someone, or even dozen very quickly, yet they are there for years...
- so in short, again, BS. Very few real people. not worth it at all.



"I have been there, and there are almost no real girls, but a lost fake profiles and all sorts of "scamers", e-mail collectors, etc..."

There are in fact, quite a few "real" girls, but yes, there are a lot of fakes as well, but not "actors". The fakes you get, are mostly guys wanting to get what they can out of you picture wise and whatever else gets them off posing as a woman. There's also scammers with ill intent.. like the guy who'd hotlist me on a daily basis, with a new account every time. The first time "she" hotlisted me, I sent a message, which she says her country's internet was about to shut down, and she had to use VPN.. "she" was in China. Obviously I didn't connect over VPN.. I'm not giving some hacker access to my computer. His profile picture even showed up in google image search as an Asian model. Ever since then he's been trying daily with different names. There's also just your regular, everyday trolls who just want to mess with you. It's to be expected.. it's the internet.

There's also going to be "some" girls who just like to tease.. that happens in everyday life, not just the internet.


"Secondly, even those very very few... basically, very unclear why are they there. They complain so many guys, yet they do not look or contact anyone themselves"

Not too sure what you're talking about with this one. I've never heard of anyone complaining.. the more guys to choose from, the happier they'd be. As for not contacting anyone themselves... again, not too sure what you're talking about. I've gotten quite a few messages, both from locals who wanted to hookup, as well as girls just wanting to chat, many from around the world. Most of the messages I get though, are from couples.. I happen to be quite long, and a lot of these guys want their wife to have it. Go figure. Razz


"Thirdly, if so many guys, surely they would find someone, or even dozen very quickly, yet they are there for years..."

You don't get it.. it's a site for swingers and people who want casual sex. They aren't looking for a long term commitment.. lol. o.O


"so in short, again, BS. Very few real people. not worth it at all."

I think you're just pissed off that none of the women wanted your ass. lol.



Here's a hint... only look at the "verified" accounts, or the "gold" accounts.. though those may be guys as well, so look for the photos. If the site has member cams, like AFF.. then look to see if the member ever broadcasts. Pretty easy to tell if they're real or not that way.

I even made a skype friend after entering one woman's room one night. She approached me. Wink

Raghu from India

Anonymous
So what about this place.... right here?? I mean one thing we can be sure of is that people in here, in this discussion might be horny but not perverts. so right now it appears to be the best place to find a genuinely consenting adult. what say?

Hd

Anonymous
Ok folks, First I am not hacker supreme but I do know my way around a keyboard. The sites I hit were Australia, one in Fla, But really in the UK the women were used in several, different cities some were gleend on porno sites.
I did find a few actual women paying (I assume) Very few. These sites are pretty much SCAMS. You will stand a better chance on Craigslist.
If you get a bleeding heart story, Ghana, of other third world *censored* holes, Play with them but for GODS sake do not send money. I traced most to 11 holes on the planet all fake,

Advice keep your credit card in your pocket, DO NOT give the numbers they will not give you a free trial, If you have, Call your credit card company stop the payments.

If you are really wanting to meet someone, I suggest Match.com, E harmony,

Graham

Anonymous
confused
Quote by: Anonymous

Yes. As a woman I used Adult Friend Finder for a year and a half. As with any site you have to have a good attitude and be willing to put time and effort in contacting people and yes there are many fake profiles. Anything that looks too good to be true probably is. Please keep in mind that the men out-number the females by a factor of 10. I am going to repeat the "good attitude" and "time and effort." All the men that I met and hooked up with 1) didn't assume that I was a fake profile and sent a nice first message-- not a flirt or one line and 2) had a complete profile themselves, with well-written paragraphs, pictures (body, face as well as equipment) and testimonials which AFF has and 3) were prompt about meeting, calling or video chatting with no run around.



In order to get testimonials you first of all have to actually make a physical contact and it has been my experience that these sites are just cash cows for the unscrupulous owners who appear to do nothing at all about weeding out the fake accounts that crop all the time until someone complains and then they ban the person, who simply re registers under another false name / location. If they really wanted to they could cure this problem at a stroke by blocking the IP addresses, which makes me think that they are in fact generated by the owners to keep punters on the site longer in the hope that they might just be lucky and make a real connection.

AAF is one of the many sites that I use and have nothing good to report about them or indeed any of the sites, are we allowed to name them on here?

GeorgeR

Anonymous
thoughtful
Hi. Just wanted to add on here that Hot Mature Contacts website also appears to be fake. Warning to anyone who thinks this is genuine keep an eye on the responses you get. I put the time and effort in and you can see that the responses never really answer the questions you ask unless you are flirting or talking sex. Feels very scripted and they are very good at getting you to buy more credit. Even the English grammar changed during one very long contact so could see a different person was responding. I even had the same reply a few days apart. Be careful as these sure prey on the vulnerable and can't believe I got caught out

Tim

Anonymous
grumpy
Grannysexmeet is defo a scam you never get to meet and they try and keep you paying to chat even when you tell them they are fakes. Not recommended to waste money on this stupid con. Steer well clear of this site and all those related. Google the persons name your talking to and it will appear on dozens of other sites , sometimes with different locations. Basically you never get to meet the women on here , they are not real people at all.

Archangel

Anonymous
stressed
That's just great. Rolling Eyes well, no more dream then. later.

really

Anonymous
I mean let's be serious this guy name anonymous you won't even give his name so first of all if this guy such a lady man why doesn't even give his name he's the only one that says good things about you harmony you pay $50 a month I know several people that have been on that site it is rated a very poor there is so many men on that site getting laid two or three times a week you're crazy these girls must be like 500 pounds I hate to say it but I don't believe a word that this guy says because only people that are getting paid to say these things are honest I mean if you're like 63 and buff and have a good job and make a lot of cash ok you might be able to get a piece ass but you can't do it any other way these dating sites are all about making money and they know that 90 percent of the people on there are men horny men looking for a piece of ass in 10% maybe 22 women and half of them are just there for text there is no real legit dating site it is just outrageously men compared to women if you're a woman you're set that's why whenever you read these things in a woman is shocked and he can't really say much because you know any woman can get a piece ass you know excuse the language but its just the fact that you have to do is stand there unless you're huge you're going to meet somebody the problem is they don't usually meet men that are loving them women in generally change in the 2000 stay are very very arrogant in the only pic certain types of men that they want to date so believing women I really special is not really a truthful statement they usually like jerks guys that think they're hot s*** and make money you know dogs no offense to the man let's say that they get laid every week I mean if you get laid to three times a week then you either a horn dog or you pay a lot under the table cash because he harmony is the worst site it is a absolutely crap site for men and that's the fact you will get over 100 times more men saying that and you will get almost no man sing with this guy says is just got crazy

Blackness42

Anonymous
flirty
Yes Rosie contacts this is the same company that dies the contact magazine if it's sex u want it's here I use this and I am a woman

Anonymous

Anonymous
indifferent
If all you are wanting to do is get laid, you might as well find you a prostitute. C'mon get real, do you actually think any woman needs to join a dating or hookup site to get laid? They can get it very easily from anyone without going to that extreme. Anyone that pays money for these sites is an idiot and supporting organized crime. Get a life!!!

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