Forum Subject: my bf might leave me!
Posted on: 2011/06/28 10:14am
By: Anonymous (Addison)
My ex boyfriend and I recently got back together after he left me for one of his ex girlfriends. This relationship only lasted about 3 weeks. Since then we have gotten back together. He worked hard to regain my trust. He always called and texted me where he was at. I now live at his place.
I have now started to doubt what he tells me. It started last week when I was out shopping. He called the apartment and I wasn't home. When I got home he was pretty angry. He kept asking who I was "shopping with". Since then the trust between us has disappeared. What can I do to fix this situation?
I have now started to doubt what he tells me. It started last week when I was out shopping. He called the apartment and I wasn't home. When I got home he was pretty angry. He kept asking who I was "shopping with". Since then the trust between us has disappeared. What can I do to fix this situation?
Re: my bf might leave me!
Posted on: 2011/07/08 07:07am
By: Anonymous (AsianBeauties)
Oh dear, not a good situation.
Firstly, if he worked hard to gain your trust back why have you now started to doubt him?
Secondly, seems to me like he's on a guilt trip...he is the one betrayed and deceived you and is now trying to imply that you are up to something too. Have you asked him what is the basis of his anger, appears to be misplaced to me.
If you want to stick with him the try and lay down some ground rules - have an honest conversation and try and keep emotions out of it. Good Luck
Firstly, if he worked hard to gain your trust back why have you now started to doubt him?
Secondly, seems to me like he's on a guilt trip...he is the one betrayed and deceived you and is now trying to imply that you are up to something too. Have you asked him what is the basis of his anger, appears to be misplaced to me.
If you want to stick with him the try and lay down some ground rules - have an honest conversation and try and keep emotions out of it. Good Luck
Re: my bf might leave me!
Posted on: 2012/02/22 09:53pm
By: Anonymous (Addison)
..that's really bad situation..try to talk about it and try to make things up together..it is really not a big issue..but you know what talking to it maybe a good advice.. hope you guys will get better..
Re: my bf might leave me!
Posted on: 2012/04/11 09:08am
By: Anonymous (Kuen)
I think your afraid that your boyfriend will do that again because your starting to doubt him.
Try to establish a good relationship to him and learn to trust him again.
Re: my bf might leave me!
Posted on: 2013/08/16 01:45am
By: mohsinj677
This post is so great and nice I have now started to doubt what he tells me. It started last week when I was out shopping. He called the apartment and I wasn't home. When I got home he was pretty angry. He kept asking who I was "shopping with". Since then the trust between us has disappeared. What can I do to fix this situation? Frown
Re: my bf might leave me!
Posted on: 2015/01/03 05:40pm
By: Jason8474
this guy is waving red flags everywhere. Don't do yourself a disservice. Just move on. There are many fish in the sea. I know it's hard but it will be worth it in the long run.