Forum Subject: Long Distance Relationship (online)
Posted on: 2009/11/11 11:49am
By: Anonymous (johntheq)
Your thoughts on this are appreciated... Have you? How did it work out/result? Am I crazy?
I met someone online and I really like her, we clicked on all levels but have yet to meet in person.
Just want some thoughts before I jump in this pool head first!
Thanks,
I met someone online and I really like her, we clicked on all levels but have yet to meet in person.
Just want some thoughts before I jump in this pool head first!
Thanks,
Re: Long Distance Relationship (online)
Posted on: 2009/12/03 07:53am
By: Anonymous (alina)
Hey!!!!
This kind of relation really works well. Even I found my match online where we both understands each other and have a very good relationship and bonding with each other...
You must go ahead with your relationship...
This kind of relation really works well. Even I found my match online where we both understands each other and have a very good relationship and bonding with each other...
You must go ahead with your relationship...
Re: Long Distance Relationship (online)
Posted on: 2009/12/16 08:12pm
By: Anonymous (Sirus)
It's dangerous. Especially when you get involved with the person you are with heavily.
I was in one for 4 years. We met up every holiday, and during the summer. We just broke up. It certainly doesn't help when you fall in love with them. Just keep in mind that you can get hurt, and that you may end up breaking up. If you think you feel powerless when you break up normally, it hurts much more when they are hundreds of miles away from you.
I was in one for 4 years. We met up every holiday, and during the summer. We just broke up. It certainly doesn't help when you fall in love with them. Just keep in mind that you can get hurt, and that you may end up breaking up. If you think you feel powerless when you break up normally, it hurts much more when they are hundreds of miles away from you.
Re: Long Distance Relationship (online)
Posted on: 2010/08/24 11:24pm
By: Anonymous (gigigrongbell)
I've been in a LDR for 4 years and it has been wonderful. I would love to live closer to my guy and see him more often, that part I do not like. But, I have thought about this and it is too good to give up. I read forums where women and men have been in distance relationships that have gone sour and I often hear, "never again". When I first met this man (on-line) I had no intention whatsoever of meeting him in person. Zero. Wasn't gonna happen. So, it was safe to tell him stuff. He's worth the wait and if we don't end up together he's worth the time I have spent with him. I suppose you could ask yourself, "if this takes off, am I prepared to move?" Cause it could come to that if you're lucky enough to meet someone really special.
Re: Long Distance Relationship (online)
Posted on: 2010/09/09 05:25am
By: Anonymous (sarah_9)
Hi,
I`m also in online relationship from last 1.5 years , the tough part is some time ity is really very difficult to decipher what other person is trying to say or why he/she is hiding their feelings.
Regards,
sarah_9
I`m also in online relationship from last 1.5 years , the tough part is some time ity is really very difficult to decipher what other person is trying to say or why he/she is hiding their feelings.
Regards,
sarah_9
Re: Long Distance Relationship (online)
Posted on: 2011/07/10 09:59am
By: Anonymous (AsianBeauties)
I would say, if you and your possible loved one are miles apart and you don’t get to see each other but this what you want, it is important to maintain a presence in each other's daily lives as much as possible. Perseverance is the key along with the desire to make it work despite the distance between you. Yes, it is the little things you do to let your loved one know you are missing and thinking of them that matter and make it worthwhile. It is vital to make sure you and your partner are on the same page commitment-wise before you dive deeper into it.
Re: Long Distance Relationship (online)
Posted on: 2013/02/25 03:49pm
By: Anonymous (Nobody)
Well, I'm glad for you buddy. Heads up and continue and never give up. In that kind of relationships, you need patience but not only you, the girl next to you as well. I am nineteen years old and when I was eighteen, I met the most beautiful girl that I have ever seen. For a moment, I thought that it would definitely be impossible for me to be with that kind of girl, she was kind, nice, very pretty and I could stare her Avatar for hours, sitting and drowning in my own pool of love.
It all begin with the idea to be friends as we've always been, we were actually being together almost all of the time. Had the most amazing summer together, we were together from 1 PM until 7 AM. Basically we were always waiting for the sun to come out, looking outside of the window and praying that one day, one of us will at least travel to the other. I was completely and fully, unconditionally in love with her, then she told me that her feelings seem to disappear. I was crushed, I couldn't go out, I was paralyzed to the chair, hoping and staring to see the little icon on Skype that somebody has wrote to me. I couldn't take it anymore so I had to move on and now, I think I have. I'm still quite sad but It's all in the past.
It was, probably the most beautiful year of my entire life, full with laughs, tears, joy, happiness and a lot of love. Unfortunately, she decided that she can not wait three years to meet me, I could have, but it always depends on the both sides.
I didn't really had luck with my long distance relationship, which had 7 countries between us, but that doesn't mean that any of you wouldn't. I would rather say good luck and one day, you will meet the love of your life, I hope that it does work for you.
It all begin with the idea to be friends as we've always been, we were actually being together almost all of the time. Had the most amazing summer together, we were together from 1 PM until 7 AM. Basically we were always waiting for the sun to come out, looking outside of the window and praying that one day, one of us will at least travel to the other. I was completely and fully, unconditionally in love with her, then she told me that her feelings seem to disappear. I was crushed, I couldn't go out, I was paralyzed to the chair, hoping and staring to see the little icon on Skype that somebody has wrote to me. I couldn't take it anymore so I had to move on and now, I think I have. I'm still quite sad but It's all in the past.
It was, probably the most beautiful year of my entire life, full with laughs, tears, joy, happiness and a lot of love. Unfortunately, she decided that she can not wait three years to meet me, I could have, but it always depends on the both sides.
I didn't really had luck with my long distance relationship, which had 7 countries between us, but that doesn't mean that any of you wouldn't. I would rather say good luck and one day, you will meet the love of your life, I hope that it does work for you.
Re: Long Distance Relationship (online)
Posted on: 2013/10/25 12:25pm
By: Anonymous (Razz)
If you are in school long distance relationships do not work. It doesn't matter if you skype online every night or send texts every hour. There is just to many distractions and other single people the same age looking for a relationship.
Re: Long Distance Relationship (online)
Posted on: 2013/12/10 12:34am
By: SaturnGreed
Quote by: Anonymous
If you are in school long distance relationships do not work. It doesn't matter if you skype online every night or send texts every hour. There is just to many distractions and other single people the same age looking for a relationship.
Yes, this is exactly what happened to me. Long distance relationship just doesnt work.
Re: Long Distance Relationship (online)
Posted on: 2014/01/17 12:14am
By: Anonymous (escortpad)
I think Long distance relationship never work for couples. But if he loves you and you trust him then it can be possible.
Re: Long Distance Relationship (online)
Posted on: 2014/04/30 02:40am
By: Anonymous (ArtsperianLeo)
"My thoughts about a long distance relationship is through this quotes:
"The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched.
They must be felt with the heart" --Helen Keller and
"Distance means so little when someone means so much".
Re: Long Distance Relationship (online)
Posted on: 2014/12/22 04:32am
By: Anonymous (Dating_thoughts)
Long distant relationships definitely can be tough although there can be some good points to them as well. For example spending whole weekends together rather than just evenings. However long distance relationships can be more difficult to balance as for some people it is not something which comes naturally.
Re: Long Distance Relationship (online)
Posted on: 2015/02/21 10:28am
By: Kristin
I had distance relationships (we lived in one country, but in diff cities) and now I live with my boyfriend. Trains each two weeks, quarrels, phone calls, a few times we tried to break up, but we couldn't live without each other. We made it and now we are together. What's the secret? Strong feelings and strong desire to be with your love.
Trains each two weeks, quarrels, phone calls, a few times we tried to break up, but we couldn't live without each other. We made it and now we are together. What's the secret? Strong feelings and strong desire to be with your love. Re: Long Distance Relationship (online)
Posted on: 2015/04/18 01:20am
By: Marsha
Long distance relationship works only if you get to meet him or her after every few days on weekends and try to change it into regular relationship.
Re: Long Distance Relationship (online)
Posted on: 2016/07/31 01:37pm
By: NicholasCatrow
I`m also in online relationship from last 1.5 years , the tough part is some time ity is really very difficult to decipher what other person is trying to say or why he/she is hiding their feelings.
Re: Long Distance Relationship (online)
Posted on: 2016/08/24 03:47pm
By: Anonymous (Joseph H)
Hi,
First of all i think that is not hard thing to do. Because i have a friend, good friend of mine, for example he never had a relationship with a girl in a same town. And why is that? Its a funny story if you ask me, he used to hang out on chat sites and always, but always, he meets girls form the other town. And at the end not so bad thing.
But it was few years ago, now he is happily married. So you never give up!
Cheers!
First of all i think that is not hard thing to do. Because i have a friend, good friend of mine, for example he never had a relationship with a girl in a same town. And why is that? Its a funny story if you ask me, he used to hang out on chat sites and always, but always, he meets girls form the other town. And at the end not so bad thing.
But it was few years ago, now he is happily married.
So you never give up! Cheers!
Re: Long Distance Relationship (online)
Posted on: 2016/12/16 06:58am
By: Hawk
New here and can't believe l managed to find this thread but now l see it's a few yrs old, damn.
l really admire the hell out of some of you especially the women in the longer relationships that are making it work . l mean 4 yrs, wow , that is really something.
Because l've been in one myself now, 8mths, just finished a long post about it and then later found this thread. even if it is old.
But yeah , l do admire the helll out of the women here bc mine is getting so impatient , well she's almost done . Yet with the feeling we've had and the crazy things between us., l do wish like mad she would just be a bit more patient.
Thing is , she's been going to come over twice now and both times l had to cancel.
You see she can fly anywhere for free and first class, with her job and plus , l have a daughter and l don't want to be in another country away from her just yet.
But ;'l've had a huge yr and when l had to cancel her trip over , , twice ,it has really really upset her and she says she is losing the incentive to go on with us and that she feels l am blocking her from coming.
It is her hurt talking , l know it , and l feel so bad but both times there was nothing l could do.
But 8mths , and reading things here like 4yrs , wow, just wow.
Good for you guys , and l hope your together one day and forever.
l really admire the hell out of some of you especially the women in the longer relationships that are making it work . l mean 4 yrs, wow , that is really something.
Because l've been in one myself now, 8mths, just finished a long post about it and then later found this thread. even if it is old.
But yeah , l do admire the helll out of the women here bc mine is getting so impatient , well she's almost done . Yet with the feeling we've had and the crazy things between us., l do wish like mad she would just be a bit more patient.
Thing is , she's been going to come over twice now and both times l had to cancel.
You see she can fly anywhere for free and first class, with her job and plus , l have a daughter and l don't want to be in another country away from her just yet.
But ;'l've had a huge yr and when l had to cancel her trip over , , twice ,it has really really upset her and she says she is losing the incentive to go on with us and that she feels l am blocking her from coming.
It is her hurt talking , l know it , and l feel so bad but both times there was nothing l could do.
But 8mths , and reading things here like 4yrs , wow, just wow.
Good for you guys , and l hope your together one day and forever.
Re: Long Distance Relationship (online)
Posted on: 2017/07/30 12:30pm
By: Antohnas
I was in long distance relationship. It is quite difficult to maintain long distance relationship. One partner has to sacrifice a lot.