Forum Subject: Messy relationship

Posted on: 2021/08/18 10:01pm
By: Anonymous (Messy)

I think my relationship with my GF is a mess. She is going through a divorce and we plan on getting married. Buttttttt…. She is currently working for her soon to be ex at a family business. She wants to keep working there. I don’t feel good about this. It’s time to break the ties all around.

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Re: Messy relationship

Posted on: 2021/08/19 02:55pm
By: Anonymous (JennyFromTheBlock89)

Have you talked to her about your concerns? Is she willing to get a different job? I must admit that even I would be jealous if my partner was working with their ex 8-10 hours a day. Is this "her" family's business or "his"? This plays a large part of it too. If it's her family's business then there really is no reason why she should leave. Really, I think her soon to be ex should be the one recognizing that it's time to move on both personally and professionally.

Re: Messy relationship

Posted on: 2021/08/20 10:54pm
By: Anonymous (Messy)

It’s her soon to be ex’s family business.

Re: Messy relationship

Posted on: 2021/08/21 10:21pm
By: Anonymous (JennyFromTheBlock89)

Then it’s time to move on. There are a ton of open jobs right now. Talk.

Re: Messy relationship

Posted on: 2021/08/22 11:14pm
By: Anonymous (Urban)

Sounds like she needs a clean break & to focus on your relationship. That will always be a struggle & source of tension for u.

Re: Messy relationship

Posted on: 2021/08/24 01:27pm
By: Anonymous (Ebbie)

Urban is right. Clean break.