Forum Subject: If you miss an ex does that mean you married the wrong person?

Posted on: 2021/07/14 10:32pm
By: Anonymous (Jules)

If you constantly think about someone else does that mean you married the wrong person? I think about “him” constantly. I can give more details if needed.

Did I make a mistake? What do I do?

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Posted on: 2021/07/14 11:12pm
By: Anonymous (Skylar-88)

I’ve had this debate a few times with friends. If you have a happy marriage and married your true love, you would never give another person a second thought. Having someone else constantly on your mind means you actually love and care for that person. Period.

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Posted on: 2021/07/31 05:52pm
By: Anonymous (Jules)

I’m still living every day of my life with regrets. I can’t see long term with him. HELP

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Posted on: 2021/07/31 07:16pm
By: Anonymous (Shanlynnae)

Aweeeee. I feel so bad and can feel your heart, too. Follow your heart. You only love and live fully once. ❤️

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Posted on: 2021/07/31 11:01pm
By: Anonymous (Anon)

Give more details.

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Posted on: 2021/08/01 07:31am
By: Anonymous (Anon)

Who is him? Husband or other guy?

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Posted on: 2021/08/02 10:54am
By: Anonymous (Jules)

“Him” is my husband.

I can’t see long term being married with him and right now we are having marriage problems and I am considering divorce. At the same time I am regretting a relationship I ended with an ex before I dated my husband. I can’t stop thinking about how I made the wrong decision when I got married or do you think I’m thinking about ex only because of marriage problems? Are they linked?

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Posted on: 2021/08/08 08:09pm
By: Anonymous (RRW)

It’s probably a little of both. Sometimes when things go south on the marriage it’s easy to think the grass is greener in a past relationship. With that said, every relationship teaches us a lesson so maybe your marriage taught you what you really want and need out of a partner. Maybe this last partner had more of the qualities that you need now?

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Posted on: 2021/08/10 10:28pm
By: Anonymous (Browsing)

Yep.

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Posted on: 2021/08/12 08:22pm
By: Anonymous (Han)

If you miss anyone that much you clearly love them. You always miss people you love.

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Posted on: 2021/08/13 09:57pm
By: Anonymous (HK)

I never missed people I didn’t love. I’ve always yearned to be with the people who I love and who love me back. When I am with people I love, time speeds up because I’m lost in the moment. It’s the best feeling ever and I hope everyone can experience it in their lives.

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Posted on: 2021/08/17 05:43pm
By: Anonymous (Blu)

This question is repeated on forums like this all the time. Here is the truth:

1) if you dated someone and you parted ways, and you think about them on occasion in a good light - you were compatible but it wasn’t a perfect match

2) if you dated……….But you think of them constantly guess what? That was your person. They were it.

I’ve been around plenty of people and observed this happen. The one that got away that is always on your mind is the one you should have been with.

You’ll never be settled without them. Don’t *censored* it up. You’ve got one life. Give that person from your past a call and tell them how you feel.

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Posted on: 2021/08/17 09:16pm
By: Anonymous (Beacon)

Wow. This.

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Posted on: 2021/08/19 09:41pm
By: Anonymous (Amy)

I would argue everyone has that one person that they shouldn't have let get away.

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Posted on: 2021/08/22 09:13pm
By: Anonymous (Cole)

My buddy could have wrote this. He’s regretting his choice of marriage and asked me for advice. I told him that real love is rare and most people never come close. He is thinking through everything right now and think he had it with someone else. Fu€king sucks. He told me about how he felt with her and I think he may be right.