Posted on: 2004/08/20 04:34pm
By: Anonymous (BeBe)
I know this might sound wierd, and a little crazy, but I really like to know a lot about my boyfriends past relationships. I want to know about the ex girlfriends, what were they like, how serious was the relationship, what ended it, good terms bad terms, do they still talk.
Usually in a conversation where these questions are answered, you can learn a lot about the guy (or girl). It brings up other things about those relationships, and overall can lead to good conversation, and a relaxing feeling of open communication, understanding, and a 'we have no secrets from eachother' vibe. (even if you do have secrets, it feels like you don't)
Am I the only one who feels this way? Do you guys prefer to keep old relationships completely confidential, a danger zone? Does it comfort you or make you edgy to have knowlage about the past relationships?
Previous relationship talk or not
Posted on: 2004/08/23 08:11pm
By: Editor
I don't see this being a problem unless you really start digging for info. You also don't want to start comparing your dating life and your self with your boyfriend's ex girlfriends.
Previous relationship talk or not
Posted on: 2004/08/25 09:51am
By: Anonymous (Jen-nif)
I personally do not want to know about my boyfriends ex's. I find I get a little jealous. I realize this and try to control it but I find if he talks about them or if I run into them at school I feel the jealousy creeping in.
Previous relationship talk or not
Posted on: 2004/08/27 03:41pm
By: Anonymous (Catgirl)
I couldn't care less about my old boyfriends ex's. Just as long as he still doesn't hang around with them (which he didn't). I hate it when a guy still hangs around old girlfriends when he says he is "single".
Re: Previous relationship talk or not
Posted on: 2019/12/02 11:30am
By: Anonymous (Caleb Kober)
Quote by: AnonymousI know this might sound wierd, and a little crazy, but I really like to know a lot about my boyfriends past relationships. I want to know about the ex girlfriends, what were they like, how serious was the relationship, what ended it, good terms bad terms, do they still talk.
Usually in a conversation where these questions are answered, you can learn a lot about the guy (or girl). It brings up other things about those relationships, and overall can lead to good conversation, and a relaxing feeling of open communication, understanding, and a 'we have no secrets from eachother' vibe. (even if you do have secrets, it feels like you don't)
Am I the only one who feels this way? Do you guys prefer to keep old relationships completely confidential, a danger zone? Do[/img]es it comfort you or make you edgy to have knowlage about the past relationships?[img] comfort.