Forum Subject: Eroticy or AdultFriendFinder?

Posted on: 2006/08/01 01:29am
By: Anonymous (SAC)

I got out of a bad relationship 2 years ago with an old g/f and have since had no luck... I'm still in need of a rebound...! I have spent a lot of time on eroticy and adultfriendfinder in search of a lady who wants to have some casual, no strings, harmless "fun". I've used the free trials, but was wondering if anyone had any luck with EITHER of these sites, or if they are both a waste of time. Can someone share their expertise with these sites if they have it, and suggest other online options that might have worked for them? I would consider trying one of them for a month, but not both... Thanks

Eroticy or AdultFriendFinder?

Posted on: 2006/08/03 04:48am
By: Anonymous (BIG JIM)

The sex date sites are jokes or ads for hookers. If a woman wants sex, she does not have to use the internet. But there are exceptions to the rule but the woman probably will bring more problems than it's worth

Eroticy or AdultFriendFinder?

Posted on: 2006/08/07 03:20pm
By: Anonymous (MattShizzle)

AdultFriendFinder is mostly fake profiles - looking to get your email address to sell to spammers. They put up a bunch of pics saying they're from your hometown before you join, and once you join you find out there isn't anyone in your town. Don't fall for it.

Eroticy or AdultFriendFinder?

Posted on: 2006/08/10 06:32pm
By: Anonymous (lucky*)

Well I am in canada, and the site has worked for me, though lately I have seen alot of fake ADS, hookers etc, they do seem pretty obvious! Do miss the old days when Real people were on, sites like this are becoming more like the Yahoo chat rooms of today filled with BOTS, spam!


and it helps if you live in a metropolis AREA.

Eroticy or AdultFriendFinder?

Posted on: 2006/08/19 09:32am
By: Anonymous (heltster)

Alright, I think the first mistake you are making is that you are expecting anything meaningful from the internet! I am a member of eroticy, and I just use it for saying "whats up" to the cute girls on there! They are probably men, but they got a damn nice pic! So take it as you may, but I just would not put my faith into something that is based off of a computer screen, in terms of dates. Nor relationships! The good old method is still the best method to use, which is go find a girl you like, spend some time with them, then just see if they want to go out with you on a more intimate manner. No computer screens involved!!!!!!!!

Eroticy or AdultFriendFinder?

Posted on: 2006/08/19 09:34am
By: Anonymous (MattShizzle)

That doesn't work if there's nobody interested nearby.

Eroticy or AdultFriendFinder?

Posted on: 2006/09/23 08:58am
By: Anonymous (Anonymous)

I think they are likely to be fake for the most part...however, I did see someone's picture on there that I know...and she is very easy. I couldn't contact here because of personal ties, but I'm sure she was looking for someone locally to bone.

Eroticy or AdultFriendFinder?

Posted on: 2006/11/10 02:18pm
By: Anonymous (Orion542)

I have found some "fun" at AFF and a friend of mine in Gainesville, Fl gets laid often by the chicks he meets on AFF. He has a cool screen name and a picture there. I think that helps.

Eroticy or AdultFriendFinder?

Posted on: 2006/11/13 05:23pm
By: Anonymous (woody)

I'm sure all those sites have their share of bots. I'm on eroticy on a regular basis and have met quite a few of real members. But just like the real world, there are phonies and you have to be careful and get to know people.

Re: Eroticy or AdultFriendFinder?

Posted on: 2007/04/10 04:41am
By: Anonymous (loveseeker)

There is no such thing as free sex. If you want a no strings attached, its better to pay for it as no women is going to give it for free unless u have something to offer her in return, unless she is really desperate. Which woman is going to want to give free sex to a married men and then forget about it. If you get it free, be prepared to be harassed later.

I have been a member of passion.com for about 4 years now. I have found that most of the men there especially the ones that visit the chat room are just looking for free and easy sex. I used to lurk in the chat room and found that The men that visit the chat room normally dont even bother to at least date the women or take her for a dinner but instead tell her straight that they are in this hotel and this room number expecting her to come and just have sex with him, even if he has nothing to offer her. Many of the men who visit the chat room are also rude and tend to insult the women who decline them calling them names etc. Most of the men in the chat room just expect the women to meet them for sex. However I have communicated with some of the ladies and found that there are some men there who are more decent, apparently the decent ones do not visit the chat room but would send a mail directly to the women he is interested in. As for the men who insult others, despite complaints to the site administrator they are only suspended for a few days and then they are back with their insults. They would be a better and more decent site if they only allow paid members to chat as this will eliminate those men and even some women who use the chat room to insult others and also eliminate racism especially in the SEA room. Some of the ladies I have communicated with from that site informed me that they have stopped visiting the SEA chat room as found that there are no men of quality there. Also many members post fake pictures of porn stars or photos which are not of them. Many of the womens photos posted are clearly of porn stars minus the face. The women tend to place pictures of extremely sexy women with great bodies but the face would be cut out. Most of the women on passion.com also know as adulfriendfinder are escorts or women who would expect something in return for a good time, so if you do intend to meet up any ladies from there do be prepared to spend some money.

Re: Eroticy or AdultFriendFinder?

Posted on: 2009/05/31 10:36am
By: Anonymous (David)

AFF is a genuine site and I've met several women in real-life via it. Some of the ads are fake, but created by users and not the site itself. I don't look for casual sex, but more for friends with benefits.

Re: Eroticy or AdultFriendFinder?

Posted on: 2009/06/01 03:49pm
By: Anonymous (Lilly)

OK a womans view - I have tried AFF, a few years ago, met a guy off there, quite local. Not a desperate woman - just single and thought I would try it out.

99% of the men are married I would say and looking for a quickie.

I saw mine for 2 years on and off . It didnt make me feel bad, beats trawling bars and one night stands. He wasn't married, really decent and good looking. We were in the same boat so suited us both

Wouldn't use it now or again though. Too many weirdos.

Re: Eroticy or AdultFriendFinder?

Posted on: 2009/07/06 07:59pm
By: Anonymous (jameeez)

This... there are some real people on there for sure... but most of the females on there are fake profiles or hookers. from my experience at least.

Re: Eroticy or AdultFriendFinder?

Posted on: 2009/07/10 05:53pm
By: Anonymous (Private)

Just be careful out there people....wear protection! You can still transmit some stds, including hpv even with a condom on, but it's less likely. Still safer to go with condom

Re: Eroticy or AdultFriendFinder?

Posted on: 2009/07/26 08:04pm
By: Janak

As some of the previous posters demonstrate, not every woman on a sex dating site like AFF is a scammer. You just have to calibrate your expectations.

Re: Eroticy or AdultFriendFinder?

Posted on: 2009/09/07 02:25pm
By: Anonymous (kotton)

STAY AWAY from AdultFriendFinders, Alt.com, Bondage.com, anything associated with these places will bring you nothing but grief, I know, been there, done that. There is NO CUSTOMER SERVICE, they have an ABUSE DEPARTMENT but its a joke and only if you are one of a select few will you get any help from the abuse department IF you can make contact. Your pictures will be stolen, and thats just the beginning.

ALL WHO ARE WISE STAY CLEAR. Most are perverts, pedophiles.

Not being melodramatic just honest.

Re: Eroticy or AdultFriendFinder?

Posted on: 2009/09/07 07:26pm
By: Dope

Honestly, I think GetItOn (AFF's new site--fresh database) is better than either. Review over here [*1] if you want to read more about it.

Re: Eroticy or AdultFriendFinder?

Posted on: 2010/05/25 03:07pm
By: Anonymous (somebody)

Seriousy, you might as well just get a hooker if you are looking at adult dating sites. You're just not being honest with yourself.

AAF

Posted on: 2010/05/28 11:13am
By: Anonymous (BIGJB4FUN2)

I have found AAf to be pretty much just what it advertises itself to be- a relationship/hook-up aid. I have been a member for about 3 yrs and have met a number of women. Some were looking for sex, some were not; some were great looking, some were not; some would date an older married man ( I am) and some would not. Nothing ventured, nothing gained ---- if you make contact and are reasonably intelligent, can converse without being egotistic, dress like you care etc- there is no reason why the results should be bad.

Re: Eroticy or AdultFriendFinder?

Posted on: 2011/11/30 12:09am
By: Anonymous (me)

I hate to be an ass but... are you guys dumb? Its obvious as all hell which of these women are fake and which of them are real... The ones that look like painted models who spend a fortune on there breasts are fake... the fat, the old, and the almost ugly are real. If you wan to have some easy guilt free fun with a hooker or an ugly chick these sites are the place for you...

Obviously there are exceptions to this... but not many.

Re: Eroticy or AdultFriendFinder?

Posted on: 2013/04/28 06:25am
By: Anonymous (ronmcduff)

escorts=ho's...pro's..whatever..why would anyone trust any of these women on these sites?chances of std or getting what the previous client had is at the least still too much of a risk.it's a shame that ANY guy would resort to using adultfriendfinder or any of them//ewww!!!

Re: Eroticy or AdultFriendFinder?

Posted on: 2014/05/29 01:35pm
By: Anonymous (Ashley)

I don't see why either site or any site should be labeled, I have had my pic slashed from everywhere and that is OK as long as they aren't planning on meeting up with anyone. As far as meeting people, I have met some really cool guys from both sites. Some I went out with more tnan others. Just need to relax and let Mother Nature guide you.

Re: Eroticy or AdultFriendFinder?

Posted on: 2014/07/11 12:50pm
By: Anonymous (Paul sharman)

What a *censored* site.
Rip off cam girls
Lady's make you join sights to prove your safety and never hear from them again.
No genuine people on here.
About all Australians take a class action against them.
Australia has great consumer laws with money back guarantee. If product not as described.no answer on contact
Just bull *censored* avoid at all costs haha before it costs YOU !!

Re: Eroticy or AdultFriendFinder?

Posted on: 2014/07/11 01:01pm
By: Anonymous (Paul sharman)

you are not a man. These sites are total wast of time and money.
How many cam girls you been ripped of by.
Make you join sights with the promise of meeting !
More lies. Go on and pretend to be a man and you see what it is like for men !!

Re: Eroticy or AdultFriendFinder?

Posted on: 2014/07/11 01:30pm
By: Anonymous (Paul Sharman)

ANY PERSON HERE WHO SAYS ITS GOOD ARE CAM GIRLS OR THE MEN THAT MAKE MONEY OUT OF THEN. JUST RUN YOU AROUND MAKE YOU JOIN SIGHTS WITH THE ASSUMPTION YOU ARE PROVING YOUR ID. BUT ALL LIES. AS I SAID ANYONE WHO SAYS ANYTHING GOOD ABOUT THESE SITES ARE CAM GIRLS OR THE PEOPLE THAT MAKE MONEY OUT OF IT BECAUSE ITS ALL A SCAM FOR MEN.......

Re: Eroticy or AdultFriendFinder?

Posted on: 2014/07/11 01:35pm
By: Anonymous (Paul sharman)

HAHA YOU A CAM GIRL GETTING SOME CLIENTS. PROMOTING THIS FOR YOUR OWN GAIN [MONEY] I SUPPOSE YOU HAVE TO PROMOTE YOUR INDUSTRY.

Re: Eroticy or AdultFriendFinder?

Posted on: 2016/02/11 05:06pm
By: Anonymous (Justin)

AFF is a huge brand but they don't care about their database too much, as the site is FLOODED with fake profiles.

I got more lucky with HookupHangout.com. I was skeptical going in but was glad to be found wrong. Chatted with quite a few women and had some, that i thought, possible matches. Went out with one woman and we had most wonderful time together.
It is all about patience guys!
Don't get yourself fooled. Look for real looking women. Remember super models don't use dating sites.

Re: Eroticy or AdultFriendFinder?

Posted on: 2016/02/11 06:13pm
By: Anonymous (Baz)

Do you think we are that stupid? If you want to promote your own site use Adwords

Re: Eroticy or AdultFriendFinder?

Posted on: 2017/05/20 04:16pm
By: Anonymous (AD)

AFF is a site that reeks of desperation. Even their term of memberships acknowledges that you will receive correspondence from their “affiliated entities” or basically fake profiles. Boy did my mailbox fill up once I signed up. Never knew there that many horny females in my small town of 5000. Of course you had to pay for a membership to read these fake emails. At least if you are going to allow and encourage “affiliated entities”
make them some what believable. Stay away and don't waste your money people. Rent a good porn movie instead.