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WHAT ARE THE BEST DATING Options for Women? Kentucky

Authored by: Anonymous (Anonymous User) on Saturday, July 11 2009 @ 11:45 pm

I have read this review and the others and commend you on your observations! I still have not decided what the BEST DATING options for women in 2009 are? Truely are there any other REAL options available for women? I have only subscribed to Match.com several years ago and found it enlightening but also dissappointing in ways. I met several well educated, responsible men just not compatible. It was very time consuming and required excessive amounts of time emailing trying uncover serious relationship candidates. In addition I had to "block" several stalker types. I dated a man my age off and on for a few years and we were both relationship minded but incompatible in the end. Call me nieve but what I discoverd through research was that the man I dated who claimed to be searching for a long term relationship has been utilizing Match.com for years, along with POF and numerous other web sites. I find this to be a common trait of men? I have since gone back onto match.com recently just searching and low and behold find the same men that appeared on the site when I started back in 2005 and a few I had dated. I concluded that these men too had not found what they were looking for or were simply using the site for "dating" only. So my question is WHAT IS WRONG WITH ALL THESE SITES? WHAT IS A GIRL TO DO FOR DATING OPTIONS? Seriously I cannot be only woman who is alone in this quest for a quality person? I am an attractive 45 year old woman who has a successful career and is completing a BA? Again if someone out there has a SOLUTION, I would welcome the advice.

OUT OF OPTIONS...

WHAT ARE THE BEST DATING Options for Women? Kentucky

Authored by: Anonymous (Anonymous User) on Saturday, May 15 2010 @ 09:06 pm

Agree, I am a 58 yr old professional lady who moved to a rural area, and live in a mid size -- very conservative - clicky town. So my options are very limited, to find that special, true man

who is serious about having a relationship with a mature woman. Even if you find mature men on any site. they want women 10-20 yres younger!. What are we, women to do?? I may try the Christian sites, even though I do not consider myself religious, but open minded and Spiritual. Pleae advise!!

WHAT ARE THE BEST DATING Options for Women? Kentucky

Authored by: Anonymous (Anonymous User) on Sunday, January 30 2011 @ 01:59 pm

Maybe you shouldn't be looking for a ''special'' man. What makes you so special that you have such a standard? Simply try looking for a nice, honest man and forget about the fairytale.

WHAT ARE THE BEST DATING Options for Women? Kentucky

Authored by: Anonymous (Anonymous User) on Saturday, September 19 2009 @ 06:07 pm

<<WHAT IS WRONG WITH ALL THESE SITES?>>

Well, what the person above you politely said .... plus

Understanding motivators. People(women) are just a picture on the screen. What would motivate guys to take any action whatsoever. There are only two motivators I know strong enough to do that. One is money and the other is NOT love.

Sure, at times, there may be a good connection based on picture alone, but that would be rare and require fairly stellar looks ... AND it would have to be a two-way thing. That's statistically rare based on pictures alone.

So, certainly, "not love" is the primary motivator 99% of the time. Since that's the motivator, that's also likely to be the outcome of a lot of dates ... since the decision must have necessarily already been made.

That's not a good scenario for long term ... it's a little hard to get past that one.

You could day the same is true in real life, but you would be wrong. Making a connection in real life may required sexual attraction/desire but it certainly isn't the primary motivator, there are many other attractants.

To believe there may be some women on dating sites, that are NOT affected by this like everyone else, would also require belief many other fairy tales. It's part of the human condition.

WHAT should women do instead?

Get yourself out in the real world were demonstrating you are a selective women is much easier. On dating sites most women will simply jump from short term to short term relationships at best. Most guys would likely not want to be anything other than your next playmate, if that.

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