Facebook Dating Etiquette

As much as we love updating our Facebook pages, we can't seem to escape the impact social networking now has in our dating lives. The Facebook "relationship status" is yet another way to test the seriousness of a relationship. It has become as important a step in the progression of a relationship as when to say "I love you".

Some wonder if they should update their status first, others wonder what it means if their boyfriend or girlfriend leaves it open, and some use it to break the news and dump a current significant other. Any way you look at it, it seems to be the cause of a lot of unnecessary drama. If you tend to use Facebook as a relationship bulletin board, please remember to keep a few things in mind before you update or post:

• Facebook status changes are a mutual decision. Do not post that you're "in a relationship" before you've actually discussed this with your boyfriend or girlfriend. Conversely, do not post that you're single until you've broken up with your significant other. Facebook doesn't replace the phone or an in-person conversation.
• Do not have arguments over Facebook. As much as you want to let all of your friends know that you're right and your boyfriend is wrong, do not share this information via Facebook. When you make up, the trail of insults will still be there to follow you.
• Don't be friends with your ex on Facebook if you can't resist checking his page. Break-ups are emotional, and sometimes our exes move on more quickly than we do. If you are still hurting or angry, do not check his Facebook page for new pictures posted, status updates, or anything else that might cause you to write some nasty remark on his wall or cry yourself to sleep. If you have to, de-friend him.
• Facebook is a public profile, so don't share what you wouldn't want an employer or potential date to see. If you use Facebook as a platform to share details about your personal life, think again. Your boss or future employer will be able to read it, and it may affect your career. Same thing with potential dates checking you out online.

Bottom line, try to have the difficult or emotional conversations in person, and keep your Facebook confessions to a minimum.

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