7 Tips For Choosing The Best Photos For Your Online Dating Profile

With millions of people signed up for online dating sites, making a memorable first impression is a must. And what makes the ultimate first impression?

Your photos, of course. Choosing the right selection of pictures could make or break your online dating experience. Here are 7 tips to set you on the right track:

1. More is more. Having just one photo on your profile isn’t going to cut it. The more photos you have, the better you’re able to show off who you really are (and at the end of the day that’s the point, isn’t it?). Use each photo as an opportunity to illustrate a specific side of your personality.

2. But sometimes, less is more. A busy background detracts from the most important part of the picture: YOU! Photos with multiple people have the same effect. Intense make-up and over-the-top clothing can also distract from the person underneath. Choose photos in which you’re the center of attention. If you have a favorite photo that doesn’t fit the bill, crop it until it does.

3. Mix it up. Do you look exactly the same in every…single…photo…? Yawn. Boring. Vary your poses, locations, and outfits. You probably have a good side (who doesn’t?), but a date isn’t always going to see you at exactly the right angle. Change things up. Variety is the spice of life, after all.

4. Make eye contact. Studies have found that the most popular online daters look directly into the camera and show teeth when they smile.

5. Don’t just go for the glamour shots. There’s no harm in having a picture that shows you at your best, but every single photo on your profile shouldn’t look like a modeling portfolio. Include photos that show off what you like to do for fun. What are your hobbies, passions, interests, dreams? Express them visually. Show emotion in your photos. Nobody wants to date duck face.

6. If you’re looking for fun, be fun. Some people turn to online dating to find love. But you’re not one of those people. You’re just looking for a little fun. So look like someone other people will want to have fun with! Brooding bathroom selfies aren’t going to convince anyone to come on a spontaneous roadtrip with you. Photos of the awesome costume you worn to that crazy party last weekend, on the other hand, might.

7. If you’re looking for something serious, take it seriously. No gratuitous shots of your abs, please. No ambiguous pics with guys or gals who may or may not be your ex, either. And no shots of that time you passed out, wasted, in the middle of the bathroom floor. Think about the message your pictures convey. Are you sending the right one?