Contributed by: Erika on Thursday, December 03 2009 @ 07:53 am
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You’re going out. You’re excited. You can’t wait!
But where do you go? First dates are stressful enough as it is without having to worry about the where, right? Take the venue stress off your plate with these five simple first date destination tips. There’s certain to be something in this list to suit every personality. Planning a first date doesn’t have to be rocket science – spend your time working on chemistry instead!
Museum Exhibit
If you’re ever at a loss for something to talk about, start with the dinosaurs! Seriously – if you’re a history buff or art enthusiast, check out the local museum. Walking around will make you feel like you’re doing something. The exhibit will give you prompts for things to talk about. If the date isn’t going well, you can gaze at exhibits in silence!
Charity Walk
If both you and your date are into philanthropy or just like to get outside, why not share an hour or two walking in a charity walk? You can go at a steady pace, get some exercise and learn about one another while showing your support for a great cause.
Volunteer Event
If you’re not so much into going for a long walk, why not participate in a volunteer event for a local nonprofit? They always need extra hands around the holidays and it’s a great way to lend a hand in the community and learn about your date in a less date-like environment.
Arcade or Go Karts
Yes, it may sound childish, but maybe that’s just what suits your personality: pure fun. Grab your date and head out to a Dave and Busters or the local go kart track and test your skill (and sense of humor). It’s a lot less stressful than sitting across a table trying to make conversation!
Local Park
You don’t really have to go the coffee shop route if you don’t want to. If it’s the dead of winter, grab a pair of snowshoes and gear up for a snowball fight. You can walk around the park and head to a nearby coffee shop after to warm up! If you both have dogs, you can even meet up at a dog park and let your dogs get to know one another while the two of you chat.