Contributed by: Adrie on Friday, April 09 2010 @ 08:00 am
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It's no secret that some people are not looking for love online but rather some sex. Hey, to each is own and I for one don't have a problem with it as long as everyone is upfront about what they want. If you're using online dating sites to look for sex then you are certainly not alone and are actually in great company! This means that finding a person-or several-who are looking for a little sumthin' naughty is definitely doable. You just have to do it right if you want to make the most of online dating sites and your quest for the nookie.
Say it Loud and Proud!
Don't be afraid to admit that you're not looking for romance or commitment. Being upfront about the fact that all you are looking for is a physical relationship is an absolute must. There is no shame in being honest about the fact that you are looking for something casual so don't feel like you need to sugar-coat or lie in order to find sex through online dating. Admitting that you're looking for a no-strings-attached (NSA) relationship doesn't make you a pig-lying does.
Choose the Right Site or Category
Most online dating sites do offer a category specific to those looking for a casual relationship or encounters while others are geared specifically to sex (adult dating sites). By choosing the right site or category when looking for sex through online dating you are saving yourself and others the time and hassle of having to weed through members who are looking for something completely different. This means less time spent explaining why you don't want a relationship and more time spent on finding exactly what you're looking for.
Play Safe!
When looking for sex online you need to remember to not let your hormones get the best of you so much that it impairs your better judgement or common sense! All of the same online dating safety rules apply whether it's sex or love you want; meet in a public place, don't share your personal information, take separate cars, tell someone where you will be, etc. And, you a also add to that safe sex. You need to always be prepared with condoms if you're heading out on a date with someone you're meeting using an adult dating site or the likes. That quick drink could easily turn into impromptu sex if the chemistry is right so be prepared just in case.