Contributed by: Erika on Friday, April 09 2010 @ 01:40 pm
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Congrats! You took the plunge and have indulged in some online dating. One site, maybe a couple...your social life is bumping. How do you keep the rhythm going even through the inevitable lulls that come along with holidays, vacations and the electronic online dating waiting game? Here are six tips to keep you busy and out in the open while you wait for your inbox to fill-up.
Local Meetup Clubs
Just do a web search for "meetup" and you'll be taken to one of the most popular sites people in numerous locales use to find other people just like them. Whether you're a cyclist or a knitter, there are folk out there just like you with regular events and gatherings.
Local Sports and Recreation Departments
Think that city sports are just for inner city kids? Well, they're for big kids, too! Tons of cities host intramural and recreational sports leagues through their recreation and parks divisions. A quick web search should get you on your way to everything from kickball to softball.
Volunteering
Your favorite charity and local zoo/museum - they can always use a helping hand. Not only can you get out to meet people who share your passions, you can spend time around things that you love the most!
Book Nooks
If you're a reader, why not indulge yourself with a tour of local bookstores? Try to visit two new destinations each week. Not only will you likely find some new places to hang, but it makes for a great story when you share it with your fellow bibliophiles.
Get Out
Take the dogs or just yourself and head outside. Whether you ski, hike, climb, bike, run or all of the above, doing what you love is a great way to pass the time and meet fellow enthusiasts. Keeping yourself moving while waiting for the inbox to fill is an ideal distraction and makes you feel better for the date that's just around the corner.