There are many on SD site working from a huge scam in Ghana..They dipslay pictures of some innocent fresh faced guys...

 Sites like these will obviously attract some cranks but have to say Ive met some real cool guys amongst them..Need to keep an open mind...

Im no whore not married,no kids and self sufficient,I was looking for a likeminded guy who have similar interests not just to jump in bed..Think I will stick up for the guys on SD as if your looking for someone to pay for your company then you owe them...Nothing is free in life always a price to pay...Ive found the men very respectable...Just need to be on your toes and not be fooled by the odd bods..

Definately worth the membership

Hello all, I have been a week on this site. So far my experience is not very good. I may not be the typical SD. I am a financially stable man in his 40s who is looking for an extra marital encounter to spice up my life. I don't plan to leave my wife and I am not looking for something more that once or twice a week. Maybe a dinner, a movie I am not even sure sex is a must. It really depends on then woman I meet. So far have been contacted by ladies in geographic locations as far as eastern europe. I even chat online with some lady but I felt it is not a real lady on the other side... Maybe this is the wrong site for me but as I'm new to this I get a frustrated.

Give it a little time. Try not to take it too seriously. You are as likely to meet some one while walking through Green Park as you are likely to meet a lovely lady on the website. I tried SD for 3 months talked to a few people, however I did not meetup with anyone. I am a SB, I would like to get to know an enlightened SD for a little friendship or more.

sugar daddie site is down more time than it is up !! they never inform you as to what is happening and you never  are given a refund for the time you have lost

Why do more rich men marry beautiful women and not the other way around? Like it or not, we live in a world where women tend to choose (in a potential partner) financial success and stability over looks, where as men generally choose beauty over all else.

“Men and women have different minds” The differences are the direct result of evolution. Women’s minds evolved to suit the demands of bearing and rearing children and of gathering plant and food. Men’s minds evolved to suit the demands of rising in a male hierarchy, fighting over women and providing meat to their family.

Sugardaddie.com caters for the above. Men that join are supposedly wealthy, successful & older (although there is no verification service) affectionately termed ‘sugardaddies’, where as the women are supposedly young and beautiful known as ‘sugarbabes’.

Who joins the site – Unsurprisingly there are more females than males registered, the men in my experience can be broken down into certain categories:

- Married/Attached men looking for discrete relationships
- Single men wanting a no-strings type relationship
- Single men open to a long-term relationship (these men tend to be much older, and are in the minority).

Not to be sexist the women can also be broken down into:

- Hookers (the vast majority)
- Women looking for someone to spoil them
- Equally successful women looking for their equal
- Older successful women looking for younger, attractive men (very rare)

In my opinion, anyone that joins SD in the attempt of finding a long-term partner is likely to be disappointed. That’s not just pure cynicism on my part, but relationships built on just wealth and looks are not conducive to long-term, stable relationships…

Overall though, the SD website is simple and easy to use. Membership fees are reasonable and it's a one-off payment, no automatic renewal. Sugardaddie.com isn’t a scam website; I’ve met quite a few genuinely successful men (I’ve done my own verification, it helps being smart!); ranging from directors of successful companies, music producers, QC, surgeons, bankers (what a surprise!) and academics. None would particularly struggle to find a woman in the conventional way, but they’re single because they can’t hold down a relationship – not everyone wants to have a long-term partner/get married and have kids.

Men and women are equally as shallow as each other; it’s just human nature…
 

I agree with most things you said, but you've forgotten a category for men. If you attribute four to women, then you have to be fair. I think you know what I mean (not to be sexist of course)

 After reading all of the negative reviews on the site I just had to share my success.

In being on a multitude of dating sites I can say that the whole online thing in general has its shortcomings... the biggest complaints are the false representations.. from women posting pictures of themselves from 10 years (and 30 lbs) ago.. to men saying they are multimillionaires when they can't even afford a chicken strip meal at Mc.Donald's; not to mention both sexes lying about their age, height, and even race (get a grip people)! As for SD.com... this was the first site I in which I ever invested  (as in paid a membership fee). I saw an add while watching tv on an airplane  and figured it was a sign (or just a well placed advertisement); either way I decided to join. I have been on the site for a few months now and although I have fielded through hundreds if not thousands (yes really) of emails from crazies, liars, and potential murderers (just kidding.. I hope).. I have also had some wonderful experiences. I have met amazing friends.. celebrities in their own right, successful directors (you have seen their work trust me), big business heads, and genuinely nice guys. Now mind you I did get suckered into a 4 month long email love affair with a man that I now think was lying the whole time.. but despite that.. I am truly grateful for the amazing caliber of men that I have met and the friends I have made. Not to mention I have enjoyed the trips to award shows, shopping sprees, rent, and even two trips around the world (yep in the past two months alone).  I am a firm believer in that each experience is not about what happens.. it's about the meaning we attribute to it.. keep an open mind.. be smart.. be positive.. and great things will come (also a little spell check on your profile doesn't hurt either).

Hope that helped restore some faith.. I promise it's all true.

Wish you the best.

Happy New Year

 PS. I am writing a book on all the stories.. good and bad.. keep an eye out ;-)

DS2

I haven't had many replies from this site, and those who have replied haven't been interested enough to want to meet.  I tend not to even look at men under fifty.  Geographical distance was a problem with the one guy who showed any interest in me, he chatted to me on the telephone a couple of times and seemed very nice and genuine, but was offering to drive a fair distance to see me and I wondered if I was under a moral obligation to let him into my home, which wouldn't be convenient at all and not something I would want even if I did live alone.  Once a man knows where you live, he can bother you all he wants and can still drop you like a stone just as easily. 

I got the feeling that there is a lot of competition, not all of it younger or more attractive than me, but maybe more sussed acts that understand men and don't get ripped off emotionally, physically or timewise, who know what to say to press buttons, what not to say, how not to let their own unconscious get in the way.  I only ever get ignored, dropped or bothered by losers.

Don't feel discouraged. I know you must. I'm sure you are just lovely. The site just may not be for you. I mean, these guys aren't looking for "average" They are looking for Porn Queens and Models. Then again it is becoming a problem though, even in the "normal" dating world. Men spend so much time on porn sites..they think the world works that way and that really homely men should be able to land a supermodel. I get told all the time I'm beautiful but even that isn't enough..they want something from their videos, something that doesn't exist, sex bombshells that have the brains of Diane Sawyer and absoulutely airbrushed bodies and they must cater to their every desire..Humm..sounds like a high priced escort doesn't it. But they aren't willing obviously to pay more than the price of a dinner from the sound of it.

Had a ball of a time. I signed up for a couple of months and went on numerous dates. I have been on a few other sites and found many members on those sites were waiting for all the stars to align before they would meet and if you were not  what they would class as 100% of what they wanted they would not take a chance and meet. On sugardaddie I found  the members much more spontaneous and willing too meet and as luck would have it Im still seeing one of the ladies I met there.

I did Sugardaddie afew years ago met a lovely older chap, spent 5 days in the south of england with him at his home we had a great time, he didnt expect me to sleep with him, the  distance was alas too great to make it viable, as i have business commitments in yorkshire, however i wouldnt say its all bad on this site, you get what you deserve in this life, if you put out on the first meeting they will treat you as a gold digger,or a professional, some guys on here are genuine just like they are if you meet in a bar or club, trust me i have had terrible dates with total idiots which i met in the conventional way, if you have respect for yourself, you will be treated with the same, by the way im not a young dolly, just an attractive 40 something looking for a decent guy who will love me for who i am and be rewarded with the same.

The site name is sugar daddy . com .... what the f do you girls want .......???? what is the def of a sugar daddy !!! get with the program !

Yes, it is SD. The woman complain that the men are creeps, scary, etc. Trying dealing with the woman on that site! Talk about mentally unbalanced! No woman with any self respect would go on that site, PERIOD! There either straight up escorts or going down the road to be an escort. It doesnt matter cause most are whorebags, dumber then wood and time wasters. I went through probably 50-100 woman (Via e-mail/phone) in a week. Its pathetic! It really is. Woman on there have no direction in life and are leaches. I found that 99%+ have children, dont work, or work some min wage job, and are super uneducated! I did that site for about 2 weeks and wanted to puke. Biggest waste of my time. I mean, if I wanted an escort, I'm sure I could google one in my area! I dont need to pay for a membership and attempt to be interested in these woman to have sex with them. I would just get a high class escort (which I would never do). I simply advertised that I'm a successful young man who wants to be with a woman who interested in that. Not to pay for sex. Bottom line is, whatever....and its scary for both sides. I would never waste my time or 1c on that site. Its a joke.

I joined SD early this year for just one month, and I met one guy, seeing him three times and cut long story line, it did not work. I am fairly educated, well I might hold a PHD title but yes I am not dumb! so, please do not judge all people on SD site like the way you thought of them. Perhaps many of them are like that but there are still good decent genuine human beings like me and the guy I met. I adore successful people but this does not mean I am shallow and superficial. but who doesnt like nice things in life ? Money does talk unfortunately. I personally think, health, good heart and inner strenght in an individual is far more important...

I wish you lots of goodluck to find the life partner of your dreams :)

Huummmm,

Well, I am very glad that I took the time to read some of the postings on here prior to signing up.

In the past I have had MANY sugar daddys as a professional career. Recently retired from working as a headliner

Mistress at a VERY well known brothel in Nevada. In my 15 years of being a "Wh**e" and 3 years as a Madame; I can truley say I GET IT. On a site such as this..... You always use your third eye and gut instints. We should all be doing this to begin with in any fasit of life. Why would you put yourself in such a compromising situation.? And for you guy s too. Going over to some dudes house. So what.... So he has a big house and a boat. Stop acting desperate. Guys like that are a dime-a-dozen. And for the dudes that are running your mouth about the ladies on the site... Get over yourself. In my past professional experience, I have found that guys like that usually have a small d**k and are very in-debt to just about everyone around them=they have a gun to their head..

how sad you had that experience!    Of course, If you really narrow down your search, become very specific and selective you will meet a genuine person. Less is more.   Not all women are gold diggers/  Of course, it is really nice to be treated good!  Ive been on the site on and off for five years - and some gross people put you on their hot list or are not true to their profile and I have to confess I haveNOT had all the superficial crap !  Mainly, it is because I am extremely select who I converse with and Ver few do I date.   I have had a total of five dates in that time - all have been genuine decent blokes, human and not at all like those described by the list of disappointed members. 

The name is largely to blame - I came across it by accident five years ago, and there were only 50 men in UK on the site! LOL   I went further afield and chatted to some nice guys.  I did not take it seriously! Todate I would do the same, if I am single!

 A lot of the comments on here are young girls - and at the end of the day - they are  too young to be going out with a man old enough to be their father/grandand.... its gross!  Men can be immature!    I dont class myself as conceited but I know i DO NOT look my age and  I dont have a shortage of admirers - but I am happy in my own skin and I don't need a man to make me happy - It is just wonderful when you meet someone who shares the same chemistry and interests!  Put your experience down to 'bad' experience, and dust yourself down and begin again.  Good luck!

I used Sugardaddie for a while. It has quite a few merits. It's good value, though I'm not sure why. The user base is unique to the site and very busy. I met 4 women from there and they were all good people.

I am in the UK which I think could make quite a difference as we're all too polite to mention the money thing. Everyone I met up with treated it as just another dating site. I'm also mid 30s and not rich, which might have worked in my favour. 

On the downside the site lacks some practical features. The search functions are very creaky. You can only search by county, not distance. The forums aren't really forums at all, just a list of responses on four pre-determined subjects.

On the whole I'd definitely recommend it as an interesting alternative to the usual sites for regular people too. 

If I was an elderly, rich misogynist from Las Vegas then I could foresee a less happy experience for all involved. 

What a sad story,  I was thinking of joining myself but think better of it now, I have been on match though and have met some really nice people but nobody who rocks my world so to speak.  What has happened to all the genuine people out there, they must be there so where..........

lizzy

i joined the site after the breakdown of a 3 year relationship, i cant really explain why i did so but i wanted to feel good about myself and was basically looking for a nice date. After creating my profile and adding my 3 pictures i waited eagerly for responses! Soon i was inundated with 'hotlist' adds and mail! i was utterly shocked at the controlling attitudes of the men, i had mails of men offering to take me away for weekends and paying me 3000 for my company! i wasnt some cheap tart!! others including shopping trips where the men would buy my clothes and they must like it and i should wear no knickers on hot days! completelt ludicrous demands!!!

others would get so angry i hadnt replied and think that everyone bowed down to him and how dare i ignore him???

But what i find most disturbing and dangerous is the GROOMING. i met with 2 men from the site in total, 1 was delightful, handsome kind and polite and didnt actually live to far from me. the other lived in ipswich, (myself just out of london) we agreed to meet in london first, we enjoyed a night out wandering and drink and dinner the he sent me on my way back as he had to attend to business at 11.30 pm (very odd indeed) he then sent me mails telling me i was beautiful and it was all very intense and i should have realised then, he kept the promise of "if it all went well" then we'd go on holidays etc and i was sucked in! i really went head over heels for this man in his nice porsche and 12 years my senior, we stayed in a few hotels and he bought along his laptop for 'business' i lokked over to see what he was doing in the reflection of the glossy headboard and none the less he was checking his sugardaddie mail for new applicants!!!! i asked if i could borrow the laptop to check my hotmail account, as i did so i found in his search history 'ipswich call girls' and a little alarm went in my head nut i carried on with him.

next was a few visits to his house, very nice and big but nothing personal inside, no pictures and oddly no food in the fridge and only 2 shirts in the wardrobe! very odd indeed, i came to the conclusion it wasnt his house, or he was hardly ever there. i thought i would raise this issue as it was concerning me and the rage it caused was unfathomable "my cleaner has my clothes and im on a strict diet for boxing" i think he caught on then i was becoming rather skeptical of his ways! Anyways i went on my merry way home and we spoke occasionaly over the next few days, nothing like before and by then i had been phased out.

i have to say this is just a site for rich older men to have their way with young, pretty, impressionable girls for free. it is nothing less than prostitution but free for them, a whole catalouge if pretty girls and men are working their way through it!

i warn ladies to have a sixth sense with these men, and not to fall into the same trap i did. you'll only end up more upset and hurt than before.

So, after dating disasters galore, i tried this sight thinking that it was about money and gave up on love.  I was in a downward spiral and thought that this could get my wheels spinning since I had free time on my hands.  well, the first guy that said he wanted everything that I wanted charmed me into giving him my email address, he will not stop sending me naked pics and says there is a problem because of the distance.  Then why the pics.. lmao.. I am slowly winging him away afraid that i might set off a loose cannon.  Others have offered me a date and in exchange a lifestyle.. they are all married and all want a " side-broad" its seriously a riot, next I get the people from the different countries that speak broken english and want to meet but the distance thing and language barrier is too intense,  The last one is a very friendly guy fr So cal, he and his WIFE need a partner in the bedroom... what happened to good old fachioned getting wined and dined?  I am not looking for a free ride as I have a very booming career, however if this is where the classy, sexy, affluent are supposed to meet, I am clearly doing something wrong!!

Guys (And girls) I joined SugarDaddy.com and I am an attractive, friendly 30 year old girl. I don't make much money and had my share of user boyfriends and I thought I would try out the site and perhaps meet someone classy and real.
The "Sugardaddies" are very cheap, and although real, write endless emails, want to talk on the phone but you can be literally stranded with a dead car somewhere and they won't send you a dime, even if you prove and verify your identity to no end. (I wrote their name on a piece of paper and held it up, and took a pic)
I looked some of these guys up, yes they are legit millionaires and doctors. But forget making a real friend, or anyone who makes the time to keep in touch or even send you a gift certificate. The site actually told me I am one of the most viewed and highest ranking as far as emails, I had nice clean photos and a very open, honest bio that was not demanding, stuck up or written like a "princess."
I was having legit problems, and needed a little help fixing my car as I am completely on my own, no family/boyfriend to help and car problems can get even the best of us sometimes.
I went to dinner with one sugar daddy, saw a movie and had a great time. He bought me dinner, showed me his million dollar home, and I drove home. (In my car that was dying) ...He told me he might give me his old used laptop the next time I visit. So...ladies, don't expect much more than stingy dinners or weeks of phone calls from these wealthy men. You will have better luck getting any real attention or genuine care from the average Joe in a beat up truck. (The avarage guy might even offer to help you look for a running used car instead of  just tell you about his BMW after hearing that your car died) Seriously...I did all the steps right, I'm a nice person, attractive, verified myself...nothing but talk, promises and not to mention the worst part---their ongoing bragging about what they own or have purchased. Too bad all their money can't buy them any manners or empathy.

Ignore all the comments about your posting. I went on a date with one guy in which I drove to where he was because of an job errand (about an hour) He picked me up from where I was at and we had a nice dinner and drinks. He dropped me off at my car in a dark area and drove off before he made sure I was in it and knowing I needed to stop for gas (asked him where nearest gas station was) he drove off. I went ot gas stattion in a horrible part of town alone. Even my "poor" dates would at the very least, pump my gas. Not a gentlemen...other guys just want phone sex, or a one night thing. They will hook you with the aren''t looking for a "professional" and their sad emotional stories of girls being fat and it was hurtful to them to be lied to. REALLY, all the while they know they will sleep with you and never call again.

Look out for J*****9...he is a true sociopath and extremely abusive. I wouldn't ever meet him based on our three day phone aquaintance. He was volatile and pushy and when I refused to meet up with him or return his calls, he became abusive via phone. I had to call the website. Thank God I had the instincts to not meet him. He also claim to be a "big" and special person...well, if he is so special why is he texting me at 4am to come meet him for $25,000? He just couldn't believe someone wouldn't come meet him based on money , yet he wasn't looking for a professional. Ladies, I know if I had gone to meet him that would have been the last morning of my life on this planet. Also, look out for CompResil-he just wants phone sex. Uptownboy also is one of those "identity proofers"...he will want to make sure you have a webcam and will send same generic email over and over until you repsond. Yet, when you prove your identity via webcam, he wants to get frisky but not provide a live picture of himself...Also, DaddyDear is another sick perverted person. It just shouldn't be this much work and women are not meant to be possessed, but most of the men on these sites wish to dominate and possess. Tread carefully...

You are right...the guys are basically losers who promise everything and deliver nothing...yet, it's better than Match. I am treated the same way but at least I can expect a nicer dinner and entertainment before I retire for the evening...alone. Good luck to you...you should find a man who is willing to provide you some assistance...i don't think you were after a new car, just what others are looking for in dating: a shoulder and someone to rely on as well as a friend who cares.

What did you seriously expect? You went on one date and wanted a new car? Sugar daddies they may be but that is a completely unrealistic evaluation of a date; disappointing as you didnt get a new car even though you hinted for one. You're just as bad as what you're making them out to be judging from your comment.

I agree with what your saying, that woman has a lot of nerve expecting a guy she doesn't know to fix her car or what have you.  But why do you men think its not also a lot of nerve to expect sex on the first few dates.....it goes both way.  Both expectations are just as bad, and are a turn off.  Imo women who use that site are not much above a prostitute, they are willing to sell their bodies for a much improved lifestyle to whoever can afford the price.  The men are simply pathetic pimps who are dysfunctional and cannot find or relate to women their own age.  Often they will be control freaks, or emotional batters who prey on niave poor woman who only have their looks going for them.   Such is the nature of these sites.  My adivce, improve yourself, grow up and work on obtaining a real "adult" relationship...very sad these people...who stoop to these levels.

Amen.  The women on this site are looking for handouts, nothing more.  In some cases, they actually believe they're entitled to it.  Pathetic!!

Read this whole thread and was suprised at the problems allegedly found and the level of cynicism.  I'm not associated with SD, but have found it to be superior to others on the Web. At least most of the members are real! Why be suprised when humans turn out to be flawed? Why be suprised that rich older men are looking for young women?  Why be suprised when young women want to take advantage of an older man?  Given the name of the site, (my chief objection) it is suprising there are as many competent and pleasant members as are found.  As a prosperous (not super rich) older man, I have adjusted my ambitions to  slender 40ish females who appear not yet jaded about life.  In other words...be realistic. My disappointment has been that many of those seem to leave the site and not return. In a month as a member, I have sent a totalof 8 emails and all 4 who have opened the mail have responded.  All seem like decent people, including the two I've actually met.  Hope I'm not a patsy waiting to be plucked!

Classic Gold-Digger. 

Why would any of these men give you money to fix your car.......especially if they have never met you.......I don't think the problem lies within the men of this site.  At least not all of them.

yes some of them are very scary one man sent me a message saying that i was a nigger infested hoe because on my profile i said that i have 3 biracial children. isnt that crazy

The website and the concept of sugardaddies is about older men hooking up with younger women. In essence a man uses his wealth that enjoys the company of a younger woman and a younger woman enjoys the benefits of the wealth of an older man in some or many ways. Women who use these websites as a way to try to get a wealthy man to marry them and are over the age of thirty or any women who want true love with within the same age range are delusional to go on a site like this.

By the way women, wealthy men read terms like deserve, accustom to along with a profile all about you demanding Mr. Perfect to be all about you will only get losers and scam artists. Wealthy men do not need to go on sites to find regular women all wanting to get married to a wealthy man. They go on these sites to find unique non love relationships and/or much younger women and all of these who will appreciate what he can provide and they spoil him in return.

Those looking for true love and Mr. Perfect who will dedicate their lives to making you happy that are in your age range do not go on these sites and stop your crazy delusions when sitting by your computer thinking well this site will get me what I want. Instead realize your options online are usually the same you have in real life and want to find a man look inside yourself and think what are you really offering them and how you can keep them happy. That is how you expect men to treat you so many of you need to learn you need to give as much as you want to get back. Siting behind your computer thinking you are just awesome is a fool's play. That goes for both genders.

My gosh... Don't you feel guilty to go looking not only for money but also breaking marriages??  It might happen to you when you get older and have a "home" with someone... Then you will look back to what you did to someone else out selfishness!

trust---it will happen to those women that break marriages up.  Let them see for themselves.

You can start to gain the power of not being "we women" deserve, I think ,by not knowingly sleeping with other women's husbands.

Just a thought

i would love a sugardaddie but i strongly agree do not mess with married men because you are messing with peoples lives and what goes around comes around young ladies and trust that if you dont trust anything else

Ahh..the ways of the world.  Well my friend I'm smarter than I look..And I say...at the very least you are honest...Sorta  Here's where you digress....   I am a hairdresser so I know a great deal about 20 somthings.  They are my co-workers. Some have been married more than once by the time they reach 30. They party pretty hardy, some are raging alcoholics and prone to drug taking and the almighty "hook-up" which reduces sex to the importance of a handshake, that is if you shook about 50 hands a year. So much for the baggage theory.  Let's be honest here, old guy, you are on the site for reasons as old as time and you.  Men want young pretty baby........ and women want the security of cash that society makes hard, for them, to earn otherwise.  I may be pretty but waiting tables and doing hair 10 hours on my feet isn't exactly GLAM. It isn't because your sugarbabie is without issues that you want her.  If she looks like Megan Fox she could have a borderline personality disorder and SuggarDaddies would be lining up.  It ain't outright "hooking" but it's becoming the new/old paradigm. And one fine day when she takes you for all you got and leaves your ole___hanging in the wind?.. You'll see what I mean.

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I agree with your thoughts. Life is tough and short, and money brings the finer things in life. It all depends on how you want to live your life. What makes you happy? Women are emotional creatures who have the nature to nest and feel safe and secure. Men have the personality, and are built for more endurance in life. An older man can offer that to a younger women. A younger women more often appreciates a sugardaddy's help. A woman can offer the nurture and love that a man needs and the man in return needs to love, respect, cherish, and take good care of his woman. Each gender offers something that the other doesn't have.

What ever happened to Love?  Shouldn't we all be looking for someone to love.....not money......not someone 20 years younger....but actual love.

PLEASE!!!!! ARE YOU SERIOUS????? THIS DAY IN AGE I DONT KNOW ANY MAN THAT ISNT CHEATING ON YOUR THEIR LOVE OF THEIR LIFE....  I AM SORRY I KNOW THIS SOUNDS HORRIBLE BUT MEN ARE DOGS AND THEY DESERVED TO BE USED UP AND DISCARDED JUST THE WAY THEY DO US.  IM GETTING OUT OF A 18 YEAR RELATIONSHIP AND I HAVE HAD IT WITH THESE MEN WE ARE SUPPOSED TO LOVE AND DONT LOVE US BACK THE WAY WE LOVE THEM.  I SAY THESE SUGARBABIES ARE THE ONLY ONES WITH ANY KIND OF COMMON SENSE.                                                        OH AND I WILL BE SIGNING UP.                                                                                                         

hell, i am interested in deleting my profile but they (sugardaddy) will not respond to my email.

how did u delete your profile?