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Welcome to Dating Sites Reviews Friday, May 24 2013 @ 08:35 PM

OurTime.com Review (Our Time)

Ourtime.com

OurTime.com Review

Average: 2.6 / 5 (by 39 Users) for OurTime.com   view button add button
OurTime.com (OurTime.com)

Dedicated to the over-50 crowd, Our Time is a dating site for single seniors in the United States and Canada. Whether you’re looking for a pen pal, friendship, travel partner, dating or marriage, this mature dating site has many options. Dating in your 50s, 60s or 70s (and beyond!) is different than dating in your 20s or 30s—and this site caters to those differences. The site layout is straightforward and communication with other site members is no-fuss and no-frills.

You can search for 50+ men and women instantly, though you’ll need to sign up for a free profile on the site in order to contact those singles. In order to ready replies to your messages and reply to others who have initiated contact, you’ll need a paid account. The paid membership rates are very comparable to other dating sites.

Overall, this site is well done. The layout is simple and it’s very easy to navigate. Communicating with your matches is as easy as selecting a predefined flirt with matching graphic, or clicking a button to send a text message. There is also an option to chat live with other members currently online. The profile contains enough questions that you can make yours unique and exciting for the right person. For example, the different profile sections has questions that can reveal different personality traits, from asking how punctual you are, to information about your interests, like your opinion on live theater. You can also select an icon and background wallpaper to further highlight your profile.

Our Time offers practical advice for meeting on and offline, as well as articles that teach you how to create a compelling profile, offer dating tips specifically for boomers, and more. Additionally, there are tools you can use so your profile is only shown in searches to the right gender and age group you are interested in. You can also block individual users from viewing your profile or communicating directly with you.

Our Time is safe, easy to use and a new way to meet singles in your area. Give it a try today!

Awards this online dating site has won.Awards

Current
2012 Dating Sites Reviews Choice Awards - Senior
Note: See this page for a full list of past awards

The best features for singles of this online dating site Positive Features

  • You can search for singles in your area instantly, without a membership
  • There seems to be very little spam and lots of authentic profiles
  • The site is very easy to use

The worst features for singles of this online dating site Negative Features

  • The profile features are not as complex as other sites though this does make it less confusing and easier to use for seniors new to online dating
The online dating site at a glance. At a Glance Online dating site members reviews and ratings. Average User Reviews & Ratings
Dating Site:OurTime.com
Members:Not Available
Cost per Month:From $11.99 / month
Membership Types:Free - Basic
Paid

Other related online dating categories. Related Categories
Dating Over 50
2012 Awards



Free Membership
  • Yes (unlimited)
  • Included:
    • Create a profile (required)
      • Sign-up
        • Email address, name, date of birth, gender, gender seeking and zip code
      • Create basic profile
        • Once you’ve provided the basic sign-up info, you’ll be directed to a pop-up page to choose the following:
          • Your height, ethnicity, body type, describe your looks, marital status, number of children and how many live at home, smoking preferences
          • Open-ended questions allow you to answer the following: A little about me, about the one I’m looking for, I’d just like to add
        • Add profile photo (photo is not required, but recommended in order to get more profile views)
      • Complete full profile
        • After you’ve created the basic profile, you can search the site and communicate with other singles. However, it’s recommended that you completely fill out your profile so that you can meet more singles. Our Time offers the following profile sections:
          • Personality – Answer questions like: Do you enjoy cooking, how patient do you consider yourself, are you romantic, how punctual are you typically, do you enjoy going to the movies, how much do you enjoy going to live theatre, how much do you like reading; list your religion
          • Astrological sign – Your astrological sign is automatically included on your profile, based on the birth date you include when you register
          • Audio – You can upload an audio, either by calling a specified number directly from your phone (a very easy process), or by uploading an audio file from your computer (if your computer is equipped with a microphone and recording capabilities)
          • Video – You may also upload a video of yourself directly from your computer in a compatible file type
          • Background customization – Customize your profile with background “wallpapers”, though the wallpapers offered are basic and not very attractive
  • Not included:
    • You cannot communicate with members on chat or by responding to inbox messages
    • You can’t see who has flirted with or favorited you
    • You cannot view members’ videos
Costs
  • Membership costs last confirmed January 29, 2012. Please check OurTime.com for most recent pricing
  • Paid membership to Our Time includes:
    • Read and reply to your messages
    • See members who have flirted with you
    • See members who have favorited you
    • View other members’ videos
    • Chat with members
    • Find out if you are an astrological match with other members
  • Cost in US dollars:
    • $11.99/month for 6 months – billed in one payment of $71.94
    • $12.99/month for 6 months – billed in one payment of $77.94 – includes upgrade to have your profile featured/highlighted in searches
    • $19.99/month – billed monthly, auto-renews automatically
    • $3.99 – one-time processing fee for all upgrades
  • Accepts major credit cards, mail order, Western Union,
  • Can cancel subscription and/or turn off auto-renewals at any time
Relationship Types
  • Straight
Relationship Status
  • Single
  • Divorced
  • Widowed
Looking For
  • Dating
  • Long-Term
  • Marriage
Regions
  • United States
  • Canada
Languages
  • English
Viewing & Communication Tools
  • Profile
  • Photos
  • Audio greeting
  • Video greeting
  • Flirts
  • Live chat
  • Alerts – Receive emails alerts whenever another member wants to contact you
  • Help section – the site offers a basic help section
  • Privacy and safety features
    • You can cancel your profile and subscription at any time
    • Easy to report inappropriate messages and profiles as well as block users that harass you
Search By
  • Standard search
    • Sex, age and location
    • Search for profiles that include photos, greeting, audio and/or video
  • Advanced search
    • Includes basic search, plus:
    • Marital status, ethnicity, relationship expectations (pen pal, friendship, casual relationship, travel partner, serious relationship, marriage), astrological sign, height, body type, children, and religion
    • Keyword search – search keywords in members’ profiles
  • Lists – can view members based on lists, including:
    • Who has viewed your profile
    • Who has favorited your profile
    • Who has “flirted” with you
    • Your “flirts”
    • Your favorites
    • Who you have viewed
    • Who’s online now
    • Who has a birthday today
Other Info
  • Must by 18 years of age to use this site
  • Our Time is owned by People Media, a Match.com company

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  • False advertising!!! Beware Ladies
  • Authored by:Anonymous on Monday, May 20 2013 @ 06:08 PM
OurTime is dishonest with their advertising practices. They state that this site is for 50+ members, yet they are allowing 40's singles in. If I wanted to swim in a pool of various ages, I would have joined Match or EHarmony. I am sorry these crooks got my money. I trusted them, which was my first mistake. Also I noticed that the quality of men was below my standards. What a waste of time. I guess you live and learn at any age.
  • OurTime.com Review (Our Time)
  • Authored by:Anonymous on Friday, May 03 2013 @ 06:51 AM
Most of the men are on POF & match yet somehow only make 30-50,000 per year. Match is not cheep. Scam 2 - I looked at just 5 pages of "matches" and one profile was there 3 times with 3 different names. Scam 3 - page 2 had a womens profile on it. I am calling today - if I can to get my money back. AND I am going to complain to BBB. What a rip off!
  • OurTime.com Review (Our Time)
  • Authored by:Anonymous on Monday, April 22 2013 @ 08:27 PM
Just another site that doesn't tell you that all you can do is look unless you pay. Why did I take all that time to complete a profile & upload pictures??? What a waste of my time. I'll ignore all the 'flirts' on OurTime & go back to POF & Christian Mingle. I can't find anyone worth more than one date...I think I'll give up on all dating sights...Too bad ;-(
  • OurTime.com Review (Our Time)
  • Authored by:Anonymous on Sunday, April 21 2013 @ 07:57 PM
Rip off! I tried to drop out and was given a discount to $9.95 if I stayed. I opted for it but when billing time came they whacked me for $23.99 anyway and "customer service" would not help. Stay far away as two dates in three month was not worth it.
  • OurTime.com Review (Our Time)
  • Authored by:Anonymous on Wednesday, May 01 2013 @ 02:04 PM
Have you noticed no phone number given to contact customer service ?
  • OurTime dating site
  • Authored by:Anonymous on Thursday, March 21 2013 @ 06:03 PM
I can log on to my internet, but I can't connect to the Ourtime.com site. Yesterday, it was working fine. Today, it isn't. Thanks for your help.
  • OurTime.com Review (Our Time)
  • Authored by:Anonymous on Sunday, February 24 2013 @ 11:29 PM
I've been on OKCupid and POF for free, and though not great, they are both far better than OurTime. As mentioned before, OurTime is like a used car salesman who markets well, but there is non-existent customer service and not even a remote effort to match you with similar types. Almost no one responds to messages, which would lead me to believe most people are not members at all (so can't respond). Two dates total in 2 months; one was 15 min. long and 13 min. too long. The man was one sick pup; socio-pathic and I spent most of the date trying to get back to my car to get away from him. It made a funny story, but was a sad commentary on this most awful site. Save your money! I stupidly signed up for 6 months, so will have to watch carefully when it's expiration time!
  • OurTime.com Review (Our Time)
  • Authored by:Anonymous on Monday, May 20 2013 @ 06:36 PM
I hear you, sister. I had the same experience. This site is ran by a bunch of crooks. I wish they were not allowed to advertise on TV.
  • OurTime.com Review (Our Time)
  • Authored by:Anonymous on Wednesday, May 01 2013 @ 01:59 PM
Go back into the site to your account and click on "nonnewal" .
  • OurTime.com Review (Our Time)
  • Authored by:Anonymous on Sunday, February 24 2013 @ 11:27 PM
I'm a high-quality 52-year-old male (whose only failing is a lack of resemblance to the love-child of Brad Pitt and George Clooney--now there's an image for you), and I thought this site would be an improvement over "Plentyoffish."

Wrong! While the pay-only format indeed weeds out many time-wasters, the site itself is a waste of time! Their matching algorithm--if there is one--is a sick joke: I live in New England, yet I get flirts from women in California and Virginia? And my search results occasionally turn up a MAN'S profile among the women's ones! Plus, you can't search by deal-breaking criteria like religion, education, body type, and others...

Anyway, most of the worthwhile women on OurTime are also on PoF (and, ladies, I'm sure the same goes for the men); you still have to screen out losers and users, but it's a free service. (I did buy the PoF upgrade, though, because I value the extra features.)

Don't waste your time and money; OurTime's time is over...
  • OurTime.com Review (Our Time)
  • Authored by:Anonymous on Wednesday, May 01 2013 @ 02:07 PM
Amen !
  • OurTime.com Review (Our Time)
  • Authored by:Anonymous on Sunday, February 24 2013 @ 04:06 PM
I have had trouble with my photo showing on OurTime and LoveandSeek sites. I have emailed asking for help. I have emailed my photo and asked them to upload as they have said they would do, to no avail. Members ask for my photo and all I can say is I have asked for help with no one helping me. It is a waste of my time and money. I will not sign up for any other dating website. They are there to get our money.
  • OurTime.com Review (Our Time)
  • Authored by:Anonymous on Tuesday, February 12 2013 @ 02:47 PM
I joined Our Time for one month without researching anything about it, and I regretted it the following day. I joined at 9pm and I had porn emails in my email inbox by 9am the following morning! Somehow, my personal email address had been either sold to, or stolen by, porn spammers. I know this for a fact because I have had the same email address for nearly ten years and have never had any spam of any kind sent to it ever until the day after I joined Our Time. It's been two weeks since I joined now, and I get porn spam every other day, which horrifies me because I have a young son at home, and I would not want him to see one those emails by accident on my screen.

Save your money and your privacy! Join eHarmony instead, but if you do join Our Time, at least don't use your real email address unless you want to receive nasty porn spam.
  • OurTime.com Review (Our Time)
  • Authored by:Anonymous on Monday, February 04 2013 @ 11:58 AM
I've been on Our Time twice and will never go back again. It's not any better than the free one Plenty of Fish. I thought I had a date after many emails, and I was very excited, but the man stood me up. I was very upset and when I went to his profile to send him an email, he had closed it out. So I complained to Our Time but got no response. After that I soon canceled. But while I was on the site, I noticed I got the same crap as I did from men on POF. They were either 100 miles away or very large with multiple health problems. I am very petite and healthy and was not attracted to any of them. We also had hardly anything in common except one or two things. So please, don't waste your time or money. BTW, all those commercials you see about Our Time are BS. The site does not match you with like people. It's just another crappy dating site stealing your hard earned money.
  • OurTime.com Review (Our Time)
  • Authored by:Anonymous on Monday, April 15 2013 @ 09:01 PM
it's the same ole same ole. nobody wants to chat some do not have pics. it would have to be 75% or 100% before I join again
  • OurTime.com Review (Our Time)
  • Authored by:Anonymous on Sunday, January 27 2013 @ 05:56 PM
Our Time requires that users allow third party cookies, which opens users up to being tracked by multiple companies, sites, and advertisers.

The profile questions are the same as they are on most other websites, which is likely to be disappointing to people who've lived long enough to look for something more complex in a mate than knowing his or her favorite book or movie. It's very limited in scope, choosing to fit people in neat, standard categories, allowing for little to no deviation from a few norms. Anyone who's experience and intellect goes beyond standard and traditional categorizing or thought processes will be highly disappointed.
  • OurTime.com Review (Our Time)
  • Authored by:Anonymous on Sunday, January 20 2013 @ 09:10 PM
The site is poorly designed and over priced for what you get, these folks do a great jobs at marketing just as a used car dealer do marketing a lemon. Also the site is very manipulative on auto renewals, so be extremely careful. They present the 1 months option as auto renew, making it look like the 2 or 3 month option don't auto renew when it fact all of them auto renew.
  • OurTime.com Review (Our Time)
  • Authored by:Anonymous on Friday, December 28 2012 @ 01:07 PM
Good luck with the customer service. I was chaged $71 on an expired credit card and then informed that I needed to renew. Their customer service was unresponsive to my problem and kept sending me prewritten printouts. Most of the desirable members are in the 50's to early 60' s range.
  • OurTime.com Review (Our Time)
  • Authored by:thespis73 on Monday, November 26 2012 @ 11:22 AM

I've been on this site for over a year. A waste of time and money. To add insult to injury their renewal policy is deceptive. If you disable their "Automatic Renewwal" feature under "My Accounts" be careful to monitor the expiration date. My disable was not honored and I continued to use the site past the renewal date (waiting for the renewal notice to appearthat never did) and was told that since I used the site past the renewal date I was not getting a refund for the unauthorized renewal.

  • OurTime.com Review (Our Time)
  • Authored by:Anonymous on Friday, December 28 2012 @ 01:08 PM
The same thing happened to me. It would be best to avoid this company.
  • Our Time question
  • Authored by:Squiggles on Sunday, October 28 2012 @ 11:01 AM
I am a women in my early 50’s. Is Our Time worth joining for someone in my age group from Texas? I know I am not middle-age anymore but I am very active and do not see myself as a “senior” yet.

Will I find men in my age group or should I try another site like Match.com or Eharmony?

  • Our Time question
  • Authored by:Anonymous on Wednesday, May 01 2013 @ 02:12 PM
Match Com was sued awhile back by a man who discovered the site was using fake profiles and also people on their staff were hired to answer profiles.

Eharmony sends out profiles of people who are no longer a member of the service and those who are not active at all.
  • Our Time question
  • Authored by:Anonymous on Monday, February 04 2013 @ 12:07 PM
Don't bother unless you live in a very densely populated area. You're better off going to Plenty of Fish. At least it's free. All these paid dating sites have just as many fake profiles or even more as the free dating sites. Too many men only looking for sex or an affair. I was hugely disappointed and wish I could've gotten my money back. Our Time is all hype and delivers nothing
  • Our Time question
  • Authored by:Anonymous on Wednesday, January 09 2013 @ 06:54 PM
No..stay away. It's a waste of money. I'm 50 and all I have received are "flirts" from 75 year old men or men who live in another state ( probably looking for an affair )
  • Our Time question
  • Authored by:Anonymous on Tuesday, January 15 2013 @ 12:08 PM
A total waste of time. The men I was matched with looked like they should be coffins or on the "10 Most Wanted" list.
  • Our Time question
  • Authored by:Anonymous on Wednesday, May 01 2013 @ 05:22 PM
LOL , you got that right...so many do look like the belong on the "10 Most wanted list".
Also, their writing, spelling, etc.leaves one to wonder if they ever got out of the first grade.
  • Our Time question
  • Authored by:Anonymous on Monday, February 04 2013 @ 12:02 PM
Exactly. I'm sick and tired being matched with men who are very unhealthy and don't care that they are or who are so far away it's outrageous. I'm not going to drive to another state or 100 miles to meet someone.
  • OurTime
  • Authored by:RetiredDream on Tuesday, November 06 2012 @ 08:19 PM
All 3 sites are pretty good. I would try Ourtime first since with my experience most men on the site seem to be in their 50s or 60s.

If none live in your area then I would try Match.com next since they are larger but contain all ages.
  • OurTime.com Review (Our Time)
  • Authored by:Anonymous on Saturday, October 20 2012 @ 10:35 PM
I think that Our Time is Scandalous my entire time as a member I would regularly get flirts or someone would list me as a favorite I would return flirts and send e-mails to those that listed me as a favorite and only a couple times did I get a reply. Women would look at my profile maybe 2-3 a day as an average. About a week ago my profile went crazy I averaged about 25-30 views of me a day with several flirts and people listing me as a favorite. One day I actually got 40 views with flirts and favorite listings too. I responded to at least 15-20 hits again with no response. Today I couldn't look at profiles and it asks me to renew and I see that my membership expired yesterday NOW TELL ME THESE GIRLS AREN"T ON THEIR PAYROLL !!!! I sent the site an e-mail but as usual they do not respond my advise is try Plenty of Fish or Ok Cupid they are both free sites OUR TIME is a bunch of Phoneys......
  • OurTime.com Review (Our Time)
  • Authored by:Anonymous on Wednesday, May 01 2013 @ 01:56 PM
You are correct in your assessement for this site.