Dedicated to the over-50 crowd, Our Time is a dating site for single seniors in the United States and Canada. Whether you’re looking for a pen pal, friendship, travel partner, dating or marriage, this mature dating site has many options. Dating in your 50s, 60s or 70s (and beyond!) is different than dating in your 20s or 30s—and this site caters to those differences. The site layout is straightforward and communication with other site members is no-fuss and no-frills.
You can search for 50+ men and women instantly, though you’ll need to sign up for a free profile on the site in order to contact those singles. In order to ready replies to your messages and reply to others who have initiated contact, you’ll need a paid account. The paid membership rates are very comparable to other dating sites.
Overall, this site is well done. The layout is simple and it’s very easy to navigate. Communicating with your matches is as easy as selecting a predefined flirt with matching graphic, or clicking a button to send a text message. There is also an option to chat live with other members currently online. The profile contains enough questions that you can make yours unique and exciting for the right person. For example, the different profile sections has questions that can reveal different personality traits, from asking how punctual you are, to information about your interests, like your opinion on live theater. You can also select an icon and background wallpaper to further highlight your profile.
Our Time offers practical advice for meeting on and offline, as well as articles that teach you how to create a compelling profile, offer dating tips specifically for boomers, and more. Additionally, there are tools you can use so your profile is only shown in searches to the right gender and age group you are interested in. You can also block individual users from viewing your profile or communicating directly with you.
Our Time is safe, easy to use and a new way to meet singles in your area. Give it a try today!
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Positive Features
- You can search for singles in your area instantly, without a membership
- There seems to be very little spam and lots of authentic profiles
- The site is very easy to use
Negative Features
- The profile features are not as complex as other sites though this does make it less confusing and easier to use for seniors new to online dating
At a Glance
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| Dating Site: | OurTime.com |
| Members: | Not Available |
| Cost per Month: | From $11.99 / month |
| Membership Types: | Free - Basic Paid |
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| Free Membership |
- Yes (unlimited)
- Included:
- Create a profile (required)
- Sign-up
- Email address, name, date of birth, gender, gender seeking and zip code
- Create basic profile
- Once you’ve provided the basic sign-up info, you’ll be directed to a pop-up page to choose the following:
- Your height, ethnicity, body type, describe your looks, marital status, number of children and how many live at home, smoking preferences
- Open-ended questions allow you to answer the following: A little about me, about the one I’m looking for, I’d just like to add
- Add profile photo (photo is not required, but recommended in order to get more profile views)
- Complete full profile
- After you’ve created the basic profile, you can search the site and communicate with other singles. However, it’s recommended that you completely fill out your profile so that you can meet more singles. Our Time offers the following profile sections:
- Personality – Answer questions like: Do you enjoy cooking, how patient do you consider yourself, are you romantic, how punctual are you typically, do you enjoy going to the movies, how much do you enjoy going to live theatre, how much do you like reading; list your religion
- Astrological sign – Your astrological sign is automatically included on your profile, based on the birth date you include when you register
- Audio – You can upload an audio, either by calling a specified number directly from your phone (a very easy process), or by uploading an audio file from your computer (if your computer is equipped with a microphone and recording capabilities)
- Video – You may also upload a video of yourself directly from your computer in a compatible file type
- Background customization – Customize your profile with background “wallpapers”, though the wallpapers offered are basic and not very attractive
- Not included:
- You cannot communicate with members on chat or by responding to inbox messages
- You can’t see who has flirted with or favorited you
- You cannot view members’ videos
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- Membership costs last confirmed January 29, 2012. Please check OurTime.com for most recent pricing
- Paid membership to Our Time includes:
- Read and reply to your messages
- See members who have flirted with you
- See members who have favorited you
- View other members’ videos
- Chat with members
- Find out if you are an astrological match with other members
- Cost in US dollars:
- $11.99/month for 6 months – billed in one payment of $71.94
- $12.99/month for 6 months – billed in one payment of $77.94 – includes upgrade to have your profile featured/highlighted in searches
- $19.99/month – billed monthly, auto-renews automatically
- $3.99 – one-time processing fee for all upgrades
- Accepts major credit cards, mail order, Western Union,
- Can cancel subscription and/or turn off auto-renewals at any time
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- Profile
- Photos
- Audio greeting
- Video greeting
- Flirts
- Live chat
- Alerts – Receive emails alerts whenever another member wants to contact you
- Help section – the site offers a basic help section
- Privacy and safety features
- You can cancel your profile and subscription at any time
- Easy to report inappropriate messages and profiles as well as block users that harass you
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| Search By |
- Standard search
- Sex, age and location
- Search for profiles that include photos, greeting, audio and/or video
- Advanced search
- Includes basic search, plus:
- Marital status, ethnicity, relationship expectations (pen pal, friendship, casual relationship, travel partner, serious relationship, marriage), astrological sign, height, body type, children, and religion
- Keyword search – search keywords in members’ profiles
- Lists – can view members based on lists, including:
- Who has viewed your profile
- Who has favorited your profile
- Who has “flirted” with you
- Your “flirts”
- Your favorites
- Who you have viewed
- Who’s online now
- Who has a birthday today
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| Other Info |
- Must by 18 years of age to use this site
- Our Time is owned by People Media, a Match.com company
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Wrong! While the pay-only format indeed weeds out many time-wasters, the site itself is a waste of time! Their matching algorithm--if there is one--is a sick joke: I live in New England, yet I get flirts from women in California and Virginia? And my search results occasionally turn up a MAN'S profile among the women's ones! Plus, you can't search by deal-breaking criteria like religion, education, body type, and others...
Anyway, most of the worthwhile women on OurTime are also on PoF (and, ladies, I'm sure the same goes for the men); you still have to screen out losers and users, but it's a free service. (I did buy the PoF upgrade, though, because I value the extra features.)
Don't waste your time and money; OurTime's time is over...
Save your money and your privacy! Join eHarmony instead, but if you do join Our Time, at least don't use your real email address unless you want to receive nasty porn spam.
The profile questions are the same as they are on most other websites, which is likely to be disappointing to people who've lived long enough to look for something more complex in a mate than knowing his or her favorite book or movie. It's very limited in scope, choosing to fit people in neat, standard categories, allowing for little to no deviation from a few norms. Anyone who's experience and intellect goes beyond standard and traditional categorizing or thought processes will be highly disappointed.
I've been on this site for over a year. A waste of time and money. To add insult to injury their renewal policy is deceptive. If you disable their "Automatic Renewwal" feature under "My Accounts" be careful to monitor the expiration date. My disable was not honored and I continued to use the site past the renewal date (waiting for the renewal notice to appearthat never did) and was told that since I used the site past the renewal date I was not getting a refund for the unauthorized renewal.
Will I find men in my age group or should I try another site like Match.com or Eharmony?
Eharmony sends out profiles of people who are no longer a member of the service and those who are not active at all.
Also, their writing, spelling, etc.leaves one to wonder if they ever got out of the first grade.
If none live in your area then I would try Match.com next since they are larger but contain all ages.