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BlackPeopleMeet.com Review (Black People Meet)

BlackPeopleMeet.com Review

Average: 3.6 / 5 (by 12 Users) for BlackPeopleMeet.com   view button add button
BlackPeopleMeet.com (BlackPeopleMeet.com)

BlackPeopleMeet.com was founded in 2002 and is the largest dating site of its kind in the United States and Canada. In one month, four percent of the total black population in the US will have visited the service. This site is for black men, black women and others who are interested in meeting someone special for friendship, a relationship or just to have fun. Having a large community of African American singles at your fingertips makes it easy and fun to connect with other singles in your area.

BlackPeopleMeet’s mission statement is “Creating Relationships. Connecting Lives.”--so why not give them a try today if you are looking to meet someone new? It is free to post a profile, search for black singles and to send flirts.

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The best features for singles of this online dating site Positive Features

  • Over 1,000 new singles join every day and almost a million people visit Black People Meet every month
  • The largest dating site for African American singles
  • Easy to post audio and video greetings
  • You can include "Message Ideas" with your profile, which is a great way to inform members what you are interested in knowing about them when they contact you—a great way to conversations
  • Have your profile only show up for the people you want to see it

The worst features for singles of this online dating site Negative Features

  • The "My Match" feature is very basic; it could use an overhaul to include an actual matching algorithm that takes into account personality traits
The online dating site at a glance. At a Glance Online dating site members reviews and ratings. Average User Reviews & Ratings
Dating Site:BlackPeopleMeet.com
Members:1,000,000
Cost per Month:From $9.95 / month
Membership Types:Free - Basic
Paid

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Free Membership
  • Yes (unlimited)
  • Included:
    • Create a profile
      • Personal Information
        • Username, email, gender, date of birth, country, zip code
        • Hair color, eye color, height, ethnicity, body type, your looks, marital status, children and smoking habits
        • Income, occupation, religion, relationship expectations, pets
      • Greeting
        • A little about me
          • Write about your personality, importance of money, career, etc.
        • What you are looking for in a partner
          • Some writing tips for this question include talking about if you want an assertive/submissive partner, personality qualities, and if you are looking for a long or short term relationship
        • I'd just like to add
          • Discuss your favorite activities, restaurants, places, music, movies; importance of kids, pets, fitness, hobbies
      • Personality
        • Multiple-choice answers for questions about your personality; includes topics about if you are patient, romantic and if you enjoy doing different activities like walking, cooking and going to the movies
      • Message ideas
        • Choose up to four questions that people who are interested may answer when they send you a message
        • This is a great way to help you learn more about members who contact you
      • You can specify an icon (over 30 to choose from) and a background wallpaper for your profile
    • Upload or email your photos
    • Upload a video greeting in a number of different formats
    • Upload or phone in an audio greeting for your profile
    • Initiate a Flirt, which is similar to Winks and Express Interest on other dating sites
    • Bookmark members (favorites)
    • Searching
  • Not included:
    • Cannot use member communication tools, with the exception of flirting
Costs
  • Membership costs last updated October 12, 2010. Please check BlackPeopleMeet.com for most recent pricing
  • Two membership types: free and upgraded
  • Upgraded membership
    • Services included:
      • Send and read unlimited messages
      • View flirt messages
      • Top listing in search results
      • View video greetings
      • Text, audio and video chat
    • Cost in US dollars:
      • Monthly at $14.95, this is a 50% savings off the regular price of $29.95
      • Six months at $9.95 per month ($59.70 total), this is a 67% savings off the regular price of $179.70, best offer
      • Twelve months for only $119.95 ($10 per month)
  • Premium features are available for upgraded members. For the features Highlight Messages or Highlight Profile, there is a one-time payment of $4.95. These options will be offered on the home page after the upgrade process
  • All plans are billed in one payment
  • Payment methods accepted include all major credit cards, mail-in order and Western Union
  • Memberships automatically renew until cancelled. You can cancel anytime by clicking on "My Account" in the upper right hand corner and then on "Account Status"
Relationship Types
  • Straight
  • Gay
  • Lesbian
Relationship Status
  • Single
  • Divorced
  • Widowed
Looking For
  • Dating
  • Long-Term
  • Penpal
Regions
  • United States
  • Canada
Languages
  • English
Viewing & Communication Tools
  • Photos
  • Video greeting
  • Audio greeting
  • Profile
  • Flirting
  • Messaging
    • Communicate anonymously with other black singles
    • By using the "Echo" feature it is easy to see which messages are from people you have initiated contact with in the last 30 days
    • Members can be blocked from communicating with you
  • Instant text messaging
  • Live video and audio chat
  • Privacy and safety features
    • Block specific members from viewing your profile and communicating with you
    • Turn off your online status
    • Only show your profile to singles you want; you can specify an age range for men and women
    • Email alerts for flirts, new messages, etc. can be easily turned on or off under the "My Accounts" page
Search By
  • Basic search
    • Gender you are looking for, age range and location
    • Display profiles with only photos, video, audio, greeting and/or personality test (multi-select)
    • Select results to be displayed as thumbnails or gallery mode
  • Advanced search
    • On all other parts of profile (multi-select)
    • Can also specify to show the profiles of members who have logged in the last X number of days (most recent activity); this is the same for new profiles and profiles with new photos
  • Who has viewed me
  • Who bookmarked me
  • Who flirted with me
  • Username search
  • Who is online now
  • Today's birthdays
  • Who I viewed
  • My match
    • Specify age range, marital status, location, general build and height range of singles you would like to meet
Other Info
  • This online dating site is part of the People Media network of dating services

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  • BlackPeopleMeet
  • Authored by:Sheneese on Wednesday, March 27 2013 @ 10:40 AM
I "was" always a skeptic of meeting people online for dating purposes. Why..because of the horror stories not to mention you really don't know how real the person is on the other end. I never had a problem meeting people but after a marriage gone wrong I felt the need to try something different...something outside my circle. Needless to say, I tried it...I tried a couple of different ones before I tried BPM...those seemed to be more for dating and nothing else. I am too old and focused to just date. I needed to meet people they were looking for more...On for a month for free just to see what was out there and get a feel for the people I was viewing and reading on. Basically going with whatever vibe I felt as a read and how they looked. I had to pay to see what people were saying to me on my messages so I did for another month. People that say they don't care about looks...thats lies. It may not make or break the relationship but you do care..so post picts and don't respond to people that don't. You need to see or at least think you are viewing the person you are communicating with. OK..to the point about BPM. I went on a couple of dates..the dates were so so and the guys were nice but I didnt feel a real connection to them. OK I tried it. so I got off for a minute and got back on about a month later...To my surprise...I ran across one that had viewed my profile...something about him caught my eye. I didnt respond to everyone that viewed me but he was different. I read his profile...it was very basic but again...something about him made me stop...He had not messaged me but he viewed me several times. So me..being the bold person I am...I messaged him and introduced myself and told him he could call me. Later that same day...He did...Nov. 20 2011. We talked for 6 hours. He and I both laid everything on the table. Good-bad and indifferent. We were both LEGALLY seperated pending divorces. He was living out of town on a job project but back in Houston every weekend so I was able to meet him face to face the same week we met online. For so many reasons I cant express this story to me is a true love story. We met Thanksgiving..had our first date the following day. It was like no other date I have ever experienced. Nothing extravagant but the chemistry was sooo amazing. Carried on from our first 6 hour conversation...anyhow...to end the long story...from that first conversation...we never missed a beat on talking every single day through today...His family embraced me and mine his after about 3 dates.....His 4 kids are wonderful and my daughter loves him. We are planning on a wedding in 2014. My point to this is...you never know until you try..so don't knock it. His house was in my area...we had frequent the same hang out spots but never crossed paths..I truly believe that BPM was our path and way to meet. So though there are some that lie and claim to be what they are not online..they do the same off the internet so broaden your horizon. you just may find the love of your life...as we did. Thank you BPM for connecting me to my missing piece.
  • wild
  • Authored by:Jerome on Wednesday, April 17 2013 @ 05:40 PM
I'm a good looking male that just read your comment. A favorite quote of mine that you wrote is “Needless to say”. I’m a person who likes too treat a women right, seriously man. Well if you want to find a good person give me a try. My name is Jerome and my Black People Meet title is “Wild I am”. I am looking for a picture and a name from you, but take your time.
  • BlackPeopleMeet.com Review (Black People Meet)
  • Authored by:Anonymous on Sunday, March 17 2013 @ 08:44 PM
I've been on and off the site since 2008. This is a site for men to find and date as often as they like. The women are lucky to find a decent man and just when you think you've found him, he's turned out to be a liar, unemployed, living with his mother, or medically emotionally fragile, with a string of disasterous relationship, and marriages. I've heard nightmares from many women especially those dating men in the Houston Tx. and surrounding areas. Just not enough decent,safe,educated employed men in this area. I gave up and got off. Black Christian meet is not much better they're recycled men from BPM.
  • BlackPeopleMeet.com Review (Black People Meet)
  • Authored by:Anonymous on Saturday, November 24 2012 @ 05:44 PM
Site is filled with fake profiles,I notice as soon as my membership was almost up then suddenly 28 messages all profiles with no photos...run..black men no job...no goals..not worth the money.
  • BlackPeopleMeet.com Review (Black People Meet)
  • Authored by:Anonymous on Tuesday, October 30 2012 @ 11:52 AM
be careful they took charges of my credit card that was not authorized by me and refused to give me a refund.

  • BlackPeopleMeet.com Review (Black People Meet)
  • Authored by:Anonymous on Sunday, October 28 2012 @ 11:54 PM
I have been on here several times in hopes of finding a mate. This is like a kid in the candy store for men. I met a couple of guys that are only interested in sex. They sound nice but after talking to them on the phone for a while you will figure it out. Also, some guys have nothing to say. They say on or two words in an email. Is that a conversation? I'm too old for games.

  • BlackPeopleMeet.com Review (Black People Meet)
  • Authored by:Anonymous on Monday, October 15 2012 @ 08:16 AM

There seem to be a lot of prospects, but the quality varies greatly. (I mean, really, who thinks its a good idea to post a fuzzy profile picture, or one in sunglasses?).

Customer service has been nonexistent - I have tried twice to post an audio greeting, following all the prompts, and that never happened, nor did customer service trouble themselves to respond to my query.

The popups every single time I enter email are beyond annoying, and one cannot attach anything to email. I would like a more robust search filter, besides just a few such as age and place, it would be much more efficient.

  • BlackPeopleMeet.com Review (Black People Meet)
  • Authored by:Atasha, in FL on Friday, September 07 2012 @ 03:36 PM
I am presently on the site and have been on it again since 7/4/2012. I say again because I first signed up in 2/2012 and erased it after about a month and a half. For me, I have to learn how to date again after being with my ex fiancee for 8 years. So, I was frustrated because I wanted to immediatly jump back into another relationship and it doesn't work that way. As far as I can see, the site is decent. You have to sift through men or women that you are not interested in before you find someone of your liking. I still have not found anyone that I am completly interested in. However, I am presently communicating with a man that I have taken a likeing to. The only issue is that he is in Texas and I am in Florida. But, he is from Miami and comes home often. But, we are planning to meet each other in 10/2012. So, I will see what happens. Ladies, just remember if you meet someone on here always drive your own vehicle, meet in a public place and don't give out to much information other than a telephone number. Also, their are some men on the site that are there for entertainment purposes only. It's not serious to them and they will try to sleep with as many women that will let them. So, be careful of that. This site CAN be another avenue for them to meet women with the only intention of sleeping with her. Not cool when you are really looking for a partner.
  • BlackPeopleMeet.com Review (Black People Meet)
  • Authored by:Anonymous on Sunday, December 30 2012 @ 12:31 AM
I agree I have been on the site off and on over a year. A lot of the men are looking for a one night stand. There arena few nice guys just be very selective.
  • BlackPeopleMeet.com Review (Black People Meet)
  • Authored by:Keishea' on Thursday, October 04 2012 @ 12:21 PM
I am new to the dating game after being in a relationship for 12 years. The site so far so good. My only problem is, I prefer speaking online and get to know before I give my number and the minute I say that....conversation stops. Am I saying/doing some thing wrong? Heeeellllllppp
  • BlackPeopleMeet.com Review (Black People Meet)
  • Authored by:Anonymous on Monday, October 15 2012 @ 08:08 AM
You can't get to know anyone by communication online..at least you can vibe feel out voice....get a idea on who you dealing with..I use call block features on my phone if I don't like him.
  • BlackPeopleMeet.com Review (Black People Meet)
  • Authored by:Anonymous on Saturday, April 20 2013 @ 07:42 PM
Save your money new to FL. I relocated here 2 years ago and joined at the recommendation of a friend. Overall it has been extremely disappointing. The handful of dates I have been on have been a joke. Alot of scammers, old and young players, gold teeth, saggy pant wearing uneducated brothers. No one believes in dating anymore...first date and they go straight to talking about sex. Where are all the decent, mannerable, educated black men in Florida? Ready to move!
  • BlackPeopleMeet.com Review (Black People Meet)
  • Authored by:Anonymous on Sunday, September 30 2012 @ 12:30 AM
Excellent advise Atasha!!! I recently moved to FL and have been considering signing on the website
  • BlackPeopleMeet.com Review (Black People Meet)
  • Authored by:Jackie on Thursday, August 30 2012 @ 08:38 PM
I met a wonderful man on this website last year and now we will be celebrating our first wedding anniversary. Best thing I ever did.
  • BlackPeopleMeet.com Review (Black People Meet)
  • Authored by:Anonymous on Wednesday, March 20 2013 @ 06:39 PM
This is kind of strange. You meet the guy last year and now you are celebrating your one year anniversary. So did you guys get married the next day after meeting?
  • BlackPeopleMeet.com Review (Black People Meet)
  • Authored by:Atasha, in FL on Friday, September 07 2012 @ 03:41 PM
Congratulations!!! I hope to be a success story like you two. God Bless.

~Atasha~
  • BlackPeopleMeet.com Review (Black People Meet)
  • Authored by:Anonymous on Thursday, August 30 2012 @ 02:13 PM
I have been on this site for more than 5 years, and yet have not ever succeeded in getting in touch with their "Customer Service Dept."
  • BlackPeopleMeet.com Review (Black People Meet)
  • Authored by:Anonymous on Tuesday, July 31 2012 @ 07:19 PM
Waste of time. They say they cannot process my card at this time but haven't told me what the problem is. They don't have very good customer service either.
  • BlackPeopleMeet.com Review (Black People Meet)
  • Authored by:Anonymous on Saturday, April 21 2012 @ 08:58 AM
Out of all of the dating sites out there its one of the best.
I do think the women on there have LOFTY ideas of what they want in a man. The problem is that you dont find someone as quick as you would like to.
Im still on there After five months, some of the women i saw five months ago are still on there. I would send them a message, even though i have a career, my own place, and transportaion, its just not good enough. Alot of women on here have multiple kids from a previous relationship, And its funny some of the women ive talked to say that the men on here are crazy but some of the women are not much better. Overall still a good site. Better than plenty of fish lol I just wish the results were quicker.
  • BlackPeopleMeet.com Review (Black People Meet)
  • Authored by:Anonymous on Sunday, July 01 2012 @ 09:36 PM
Yes, I agree. There are men and women on the site who are just playing games. I have been on the site for about five months, and have had three (dates). One guy I believe all he wants is a phone pen pal. Not really doing anything but texting and calling with one liners We met once, and we both said we liked each other and wanted to pursue it further. He is not serious obviously,because he is still on the site daily, but yet contacting me with messages. He doesn't have transportation now and works a lot. I will try this for another 30 days, and if I am not blessed with a serious partner, I am out of the circus for good! Wish everyone else the best!
  • BlackPeopleMeet.com Review (Black People Meet)
  • Authored by:Anonymous on Monday, September 17 2012 @ 06:36 PM
I was on this site in 2005 and met quite a few guys on the site nice guys.I picked 2 one eastcoast 1 westcost it seemed the eastcoast guy lived on the site even saying he wanted to meet and get to know each other. I was more interested in him but this guy had woman coming out the ears I found out. I was seeking a real relationship the westcoast guy was very nice but then turned out to be a mommas boy! I just said I will take a break. forward to 2012 eastcoast guy is still on the site!
  • BlackPeopleMeet.com Review (Black People Meet)
  • Authored by:Anonymous on Monday, December 31 2012 @ 06:19 PM
I think I know the eastcoast guy your talking about also yep he says he is looking for a serious relationship texts a lot and calls but he plays wat too many games and says taking his first cruse soon but he has been on quite a few with women
  • BlackPeopleMeet.com is not worth your time
  • Authored by:Anonymous on Sunday, November 11 2012 @ 09:17 AM
The site is complete garbage. I got a lot of emails semi-literate thugs, African men in Europe and Africa (I don't do overseas long distance or English as a second or third language, and I don't mess with anything that might be a green card ploy, so I just cut these off at the outset), and there are a lot of white men with chocolate fantasies cruising there as well. If you want to meet black people online, just use regular online dating sites; there are plenty of us on there. And I've heard the same thing from men who've tried it, except that their complaint was that it was Chickenhead City. I think I was on here a week before I realized that I couldn't be bothered and bailed.
  • BlackPeopleMeet.com is not worth your time
  • Authored by:Anonymous on Sunday, March 17 2013 @ 08:54 PM
Horrible selection of men. This site is for men seeking women. Too many liars, false profiles, scam artist and unsafe men on the site, unemplyed, uneducated, sex driven men, especially in the Houston TX and surrounding areas. Very dissapointing and not worth the money. Black Christian Meet is a recycled version of BPM same men same song and not Christian..
  • BlackPeopleMeet.com Review (Black People Meet)
  • Authored by:Tracee on Friday, July 20 2012 @ 01:15 AM

I wonder if the site is so limited because alot of black people are leary of online dating. Although curious, I'm very skeptical & a bit old fashioned when it comes to dating. I guess it would be the same as meeting someone by chance. My question is .... is there a fee? Most dating sites that are reputable cost

  • BlackPeopleMeet.com Review (Black People Meet)
  • Authored by:Anonymous on Sunday, July 29 2012 @ 10:08 PM
Yes there is a fee...a friend. Mine met her husband on blackpeoplemeet.com.....he is a very good catch and they dated a year and recently got married....
  • Black People Meet comment
  • Authored by:Raz on Tuesday, April 02 2013 @ 09:35 AM
That gives me hope about this dating site then.
  • BlackPeopleMeet.com Review (Black People Meet)
  • Authored by:Anonymous on Thursday, July 14 2011 @ 02:52 AM

This site is wonderful!  I am or was :-) rather a single african american female who just moved to a new state.  I found a really nice guy in less than a month-a few wierd ones as well...  My friend told me to just try it because she had a friend that was successful in meeting a decent guy.  It was the best money I've ever spent.

Thank you so very much black people meet!

So easy is that snapshot? Kids-how many-live with you? Single-ever married?  Where you live?  What you looking for?

Perfect!  Hopefully everything works out with this man, but if I had to-money well spent and I am not one that enjoys spending.

  • BlackPeopleMeet.com Review (Black People Meet)
  • Authored by:neffie on Friday, March 08 2013 @ 02:11 AM
this website was a big dissapointment and actually i think its a fraud,im hispanic but i only date black women only,i was hoping to find a ladie friend and see where it would go but after one day i couldnt send or recieve meassages and i couldnt see who viewed my profile,a lady friend who i got her number on the website said my profile was blocked from her end.worst $14.99 ive ever wasted in my life,please dont join because youre just throwing your money away.us guys are better off going to a club or a bar to meet single women.