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OKcupid Tanned, Toned Blond's are welcome

Authored by: tantrasupertaco (Anonymous User) on Sunday, April 28 2013 @ 01:23 pm

Hello tanned, toned, blond you don't need to lie about anything. But sometimes not talking about some things or making some things less obvious may help.

I talked with a OKcupid woman in Santa Monica showing a closeup of her buttocks, torso in a bikini and face photos. Her first question was asking me about tantra because she approached me first? She looked incredible with her photos focused on her outer beauty. Curious about how men relate with her because of the focus of her photos, I asked her how men treated her? She said most think of her as more of a toy for their pleasure. So her question about tantra seemed strange with her being sensitive about how men focus on getting physical with her?

I was surprised by talking with her how intelligent she is on so many topics that I have strengths in and her showing photos focused more on physical pleasure and beauty in a relationship. I think the competitive side of her took over her sensibilities and not getting recognition of her mental skills helped make her focus on showing off her incredible body.

Then she complains men expect her to want physical pleasure?

Her answers to questions said she is totally willing to meet in person but she made it clear we need to communicate possibly for months before meeting.

Some very attractive women don't use even 1-2 photos of themselves in personal profiles as a way to attract men less focused or not focused on physical pleasure. Many women use a photo shot so far from the camera little is clear about their face but it suggests they are fit or in good health gives a clue about their body. Granted some women don't believe they are as attractive in photos as they are in person.

A friend she runs a robotics group could work as a model if she wanted. She stopped showing photos of the group wearing any makeup at all and hair not made to look her best. Even without makeup she looks better than some models not in makeup to me. But it causes her less grief with jerks.

If you and I were to develop a relationship over a month and swap photos to know who we are meeting, it's not a big deal if you look incredible.

Most women only post they have a college degree if they have one. I don't care if you have a Harvard or other Ivy credentials.
Many that get great degrees work in a capacity we rarely hear about them, so who cares? If you post a specific college that is highly ranked some may take this as bragging if other things seem like your bragging.

If you state the obvious your tanned, toned and blonde some people may consider this bragging. I worked as a paid informant or spy once but don't talk about it to friends or on dating sites for fear of sounding like I'm bragging.

If meeting men and you once had a bad experience, bring along 1, 2 or 4 friends. I don't care if others are along to meet in public.
I like our meeting in public just in case you bring 2-4 guys to rob me. The downside of meeting this way is your friends will do everything they can to find something wrong with a man.
I recommend not having other women at the table with a man you meet or date so they are at a separate table. I guarantee they will sabotage your getting a date if given a chance. Most women sabotage dating with their wish list for 5000 things they want in a man so 2-3 women make 10,000 or 15,000 deal killers.

I host a Wed after work beach volleyball group year round and try to recruit new members male/female all the time. I talked with a man last night about 6 feet tall. Tanned, toned blonds like yourself that can handle their own in conversation just like untanned not toned blonds, redheads, women with black or kinky hair and all other hair colors are welcome. Last Summer we had 30-40 show up to meet other fun people to play with.

I love the warm, fun and friendly people that play beach volleyball that join my group and people that never join that I meet at other places. Because almost all are warm and friendly.

Meetup groups now meet worldwide may make a better way to see people in action in sports. Ask them questions, have them ask you questions. This may be a more useful way to meet people in person with 5, 10, 20 or some groups have 300 show up for meetups.

And a great way to get past someones objections to tanned, toned blond men or women. Some women even like checking out tanned toned men only wearing shorts. But you have to talk to people to decide if he or she can converse at your level.

Some join meetups to get laid. Some join them to have fun playing a sport or share food, drink with. Some join groups to gain verbal skills, foreign language or gain business knowledge. Some fake interests purely to date men or women they become intimate with. Some look for friends for life. Some join to find one or more buddy's to fly or go sailing with. Some canoe or kayak and camp in canoes or kayaks. I want to host a beach yoga meet and help people find dance groups that dance on a regular basis.

Tanned toned blonds and people not so tanned, toned and have other hair colors are welcome also.

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