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Authored by: Addie (Anonymous User) on Tuesday, March 19 2013 @ 03:02 pm

A lot of guys are complaining about how flakey the girls can be on OKCupid. While I can't speak for all of the girls on the site, I wanted to post this to help give the guys with some insight as to why they may not get a good response from the females.

Here are the main reasons why I won't respond or message a guy:

1. Lackluster Profile - If in each question area, there's one 1 or two sentences to describe you, that's a huge turn-off. I'm not looking for 10 paragraphs in each section but if I see that you're profile is barely filled out, that sends me the message hat you didn't really care enough to describe yourself. So why should I care to get to know you?

2. Creepy/Weird Photos/Lack of Attraction - Pictures with your shirt off, of your car, or just plain inappropiate, unflattering pics scare me off. Look, us human beings are superficial creatures when it comes to looks. We all like things that look good to us. If you can't put up decent (UP-TO-DATE) photos of yourself, then you probably won't get a lot of messages.

3. A "Dealbreaker" Profile Comment - When it comes to dating, we all have standards and certain things we like and don't like in a partner. I think it's normal to have 1 or 2 dealbreakers that guarantees a relationship not happening. Maybe, it's a person having kids. Or a person doing drugs. Perhaps it's a religion issue (for example, I won't seriously date anyone who's not a Christian.) If I see that you have a dealbreaker in your profile, I won't be interested in dating you. Being friends is a different story though.

4. Messaging Etiquette - A message with excessive grammar and spelling mistakes, all-caps typing, or seemingly unintelligible messages are super unattractive. If a 4th grader has better writing skills then you, that's a major turn-off.

5. Nervousness - Honestly, some of us girls may have never done online dating before and are really nervous for whatever reason. Especially when it comes to meeting someone in person. Sometimes, I don't message or respond to a guy because I freak out at the possibility of hitting it off and meeting him!

6. Laziness - Yep, sometimes, we are just insanely lazy about responding, especially if we're being bombarded with tons of messages a day.

Really, these are the main reasons for someone not getting a response from me. Hopefully this helps some people into understanding why they're not getting lots of responses!

This is to help the guys...

Authored by: Anonymous (Anonymous User) on Sunday, June 21 2015 @ 01:34 am

So I guy writes tips and he gets nice responses. A woman, who writes nice tips, which are actually true gets nasty responses. No wonder we don't want to respond.

This was created by 4 tech men in the Silicon Valley. That says a lot right there.

This is to help the guys...

Authored by: Anonymous (Anonymous User) on Thursday, December 25 2014 @ 12:31 pm

Cause you're superficial, lazy and self centered. Yeah.

This is to help the guys...

Authored by: Anonymous (Anonymous User) on Saturday, June 15 2013 @ 07:41 am

When I was a fourth grader, I had better writing THAN you.

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