This article will attempt to describe what a fake profile is, why they are
created and who creates them.
What is a Fake Dating Profile?
A fake dating profile is a profile created on a dating service that
inaccurately represents the person creating the profile. It is used to mislead
other members of the dating service for varying reasons. Most fake
profiles (75%+) are of woman.
Why are these Fake Dating Profiles created and who creates them?
There are three main types of fake profiles:
- The first one is relatively harmless but the most common. It is created by the average
person quickly just to gain access to the site by using a free trial
membership. They use these memberships to check out what the dating
site has to offer them. The profile usually contain minimal
information and one word answers. This makes them fairly easy to spot
and thus can be avoided. Almost always these profiles are without
photo's. Since they are easy to spot you would think that the dating
sites would remove them rather quickly. This is not always the case,
since they can use these profiles to inflate their numbers of how many
members they have.
- The second fake profile type is probably the hardest to spot. It
again contains bogus information about the member, but the information used
is usually what is most commonly searched for in the dating world.
As an example a male or female under thirty who is trim and good looking.
The picture used is usually of some good looking person probably taken from
another dating sites member profile. This type of fake profile is
created to create more responses from other members. The person wishes to
lead other members on just for the fun of it (don't ask me why?} or to
actually try and get a date hoping that when the person actually see's them
and gets to know them, all lies will be forgiven!
- The last fake profile type is created to indirectly make money for the
profile owner. Half the time, these fake profiles contain actual
photo's of the person along with an exaggerated profile. These
profiles are usually created by escorts or people from porn sites.
They do this, with the idea that you will like this persons photo and
profile so much, that you would willing to pay to see more of them.
These type of profiles are mainly geared towards men and/or people with
certain fetishes. Dating Services don't like these profiles since they
degrade their site and can take potential money from them. Not always
easily to spot at first (some can be blatantly obvious though), these
profile are usually removed when enough members complain about them.
To wrap up...
In the end all dating sites contain the above fake profile types to varying
degrees. It's hard for the dating services to keep up with them since so
many are created (there are automated programs that can actually create them).
With good software filters and manual checking of profiles they can be for the
most part easily flagged as fake and then removed in time.
In my experience and from what I have seen other singles write about, the
below dating sites listed have the least number of fake profiles. They are
listed in no particular order:
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Heres another fake dating site using fake profiles. BADOO, i was a victim lucky for me I found my own pictures and information used as a profile created by Badoo creaters. I have emailed them to take this down but who knows how many other victims do not know about there own photos and inform ation being stolen off myspace and being used to create a dating profile!
I believe sites like that to be mainly fake or hyped profiles even though the women appear to be regular everyday women you would come across in real life, I do not trust dating sites that most if not all profiles are from the same place or the same two places.
It is the same with sites that have the automatic chat popup’s that constantly show up and you cant reply to when you visit the site and your not a paid member, Also the sites that do not allow you to see profiles unless you are a paid member.
My rule is, If you cant chat with members or see the profiles without paying and they all seem to be in one or two areas it’s either a fake site or a scam or the profiles are just there for the hype and you wont get any real responses from the members….
2) The site has been saying they are "working" on a live chat system for the last 12 months
3) Standard Members "can NOT" Block other members from bothering them
4) The site "accidentally" and regularly deletes profiles of members for no reason
5) When you browse profiles, the site shows that "all of them" are ONLINE but if you go to one of those profiles, they are NOT online
6) People who are standard members are simply wasting their time
7) The site is basically garbage unless you pay for a membership
pay you can't do anything. People that pay can't get in
touch with people that don't pay. These dating services
are providing a poor service to the public....
Fake user profiles should be exposed! For example, a user on OkCupid who recently (up until a few days ago) used a fake photograph of an attractive woman in order to lure innocent and trusting men to her. I was one of her victims. she is still active on this site, and still won't use her own photo!! Ladies and gents - watch out for charlatans. They lurk everywhere. ID verification should be standard across the board.
imho some fakers are simply on for a harmless laugh. Married/involved people who want to get some attn or flirt online without any intention of ever meeting. Its the closest some get to cheating without ever actually doing it. Sad indeed. But in this case the only harm done is someone's time was wasted.
Possibly in some cases someone is very insecure or socially phobic and feels pretending to be a beauty queen or hunky stud is the only way to get people to talk to them (nicely). Again sad if true
Some sites create fake profiles although the membership and everything there is free of charge. I don't understand why are they doing it.
The reason dating sites are making fake profiles ia because apparently there is this unofficial online dating rule that sending a girl a kiss or wink shows that you lack confidence and guys are encouraged to make direct contact with a paid message first. So the dating service makes profiles of legitimate looking profiles to lure men into spending money to send emails to these fake profiles...
Now men who are linked to Nigeria are using dating sites like Plenty of Fish to trick women with their fake profile pictures, usually a caucasian middle age man with generous salaries. They will sweet talk you into giving them your phone number, try to call you everyday to establish a bond, then who knows what else. They prey on lonely women and they use a generic paragraph about how they desperately need you. They use a tragedy such as "I lost my wife and son in a car accident " to get the woman's sympathy. They do not have command of the English language when they attract the victim, a giveaway, even when they say they were born in America. One man I found through Google had a history of fraud, extracting money from unsuspecting victims. The picture just happens to be that of a member of Facebook and an innocent victim of identity theft. I notice that this has been happening to people for quite some time and something should be done about this.
true... fake profiles could be harmless, but what about fake dating websites who are after your money?
It seems to me, that some sites themselves put lots of fake profiles to appear as if there are lots of people on their site. These profiles even take part on the site forums to attract real profiles to take part on it. I, only, can't understand why are they doing it.
I believe I have figured out why they send these profiles on Match.
For the 6 month guarantee, you HAVE to email people back to show that you are trying or they won't honor the guarantee.
I believe they send out these bogus profiles to gauge that.
I have been hit lately by TWO fakes (I think). The latest is "john" from Illinois but when he gets you to match.com's chat feature, "he" tells you that he lives in Wales. His english is very poor. I looked up his email address using google and the first entry was about "fake dating profiles." I clicked there and saw the same photo of "john." I did give him my email address but I did not give him my yahoo chat name. But that reminds me of the first possible "faker," Alfredo Jefferson. Says he lives locally but is currently in France. Both of these guys wanted me to install yahoo chat client on my computer. Thankfully, I did not do that. But I did give the first guy my yahoo account name. What is their endgame? What do they want and what can they get? Is my computer compromised by chatting with this "john" guy on match.com's chat feature?
I'm east european living in Wales and I just want to say. "John" can be real english guy ... Wesh education system is on "Afrika" level. I know many welsh guys who can properly spell.
thats interesting that you mentioned the fact that they wanted you to install yahoo chat cuz they asked the same thing from me! I didnt do it though. In fact, after reading all of this, I left the dating site cuz the idea of fake profiles, etc. freaks me out
You failed to mention one type of fake profile. That is the Website Created fake profile. I would have to say that around 80% of all the female profiles you see on a dating website are just made up people. If the company didn't fill up their site with these fake profiles, then guys wouldn't sign up. Its all a scam, you see.
Well, there's another group off fakers. I'm part of that group. I'm doing research on dating sites, so I have created several male and female profiles in order to compare services and social behavior. And, I can tell you, it's really not hard to do. So, yes, I can imagine that there are thousands and thousands of fake profiles.
I am a man, so my opionion is tainted, yet, I can tell, some dating sites have a very misleading policy. For example: I have noticed that female profiles are sometimes boosted by the company approach. Furhtermore, females often have more free options. This might be a reason why lot of female profiles are actually not active. Yet, when the enthousiastic man looks to the vast amount of interesting ladies, he will be motivated to pay for full acces. Furthermore, since I have started this, I actually got really disgusted from the behavior of some men. So, that also might be a reason for women with good intentions to leave their intrest in the dating site.
So, be carefull before you pay!
I have just had a horrible experience with a supposedly trusted dating site - and met an "american soldier serving in Iraq" Months later it turned out to be someone elses photos he kept sending me - a genuine soldier!
Thankfully for me he never asked for money at all so not sure what his end game was but lucky ive just walked away with hurt pride. These idiots need to be stopped as it is giving dating sites a bad reputation and genuine people that want to meet someone and fall in love are finding it even harder. We need to make sure every bad experience is talked about so it helps others!
Biggest culprit, Whitelabeldating, which powers about 2000 sites, and turns over lots of cash from unlawfully using fake profiles...
http://www.reviewcentre.com/reviews170704.html
Over 1 month I bring you ......
"Signs of a fake profile"
1. potential match requests you send to a external email address
2. potential match indicates that there profile will be expiring soon
3. profile says local but when you send an email to potential match, they inform you they
live outside US
4. potential match says they were born in US but live with relative outside US
5. potential match says they are visiting family overseas and will return to US in different spot
6. potential match profile is overfilled with love and emotion
7. potential match profile is overfilled with religious references
8. potential match says they use an internet cafe and wait for your response
9. potential match does not have practical knowledge of the area.
Although my search is for US, I would not doubt it if it is happening everywhere. So from a business perspective the sites are trying to make money off at least 1 month of service from new users and hire low wage staff to manage accounts. If you think about it if you have even a small margin of profile per 1 account, the profit is extensive when you are talking about millions of users. They also have patience with forged profiles as it keeps there statistics high (e.g. millions of users more than other sites).
This is a theory on my part based on limited research, but I do feel that some sites operate with this model.